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Archived questions from: 10 February, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I get this bad gut feeling and then the relationship dies

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I have a problem but its more to do with me than another person. I get into a relationship feeling happy but then, as time goes by, I start to get this bad gut feeling (the time length it starts happening varies from a week to a couple months) ...

I have zero self confidence when it comes to being with my boyfriend

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10 February 2011 (F) - Hi peeps I'm a 19 year old girl and basically I have zero self confidence when it comes to being with my boyfriend. I've always had body confidence issues, didnt have a boyfriend until 17 and even then never got past the kissing stage. now things ...

I found out my partner has HIV. What can I do? Please help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I’m a single mum of 2. I met this partner online and he sounded like a good guy on the phone. 2 months into emails and phone calls we decided to meet. By the way, it’s a long distance relationship. He separated from his wife 2 years ago and they ...

I'm 20, and my Muslim parents are too overprotective. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Ok, to make a long story short, I come from a Muslim family and my parents are way too overprotective. I’m 20 years old and I’m not allowed to go out with my friends or anything, I can’t even go to the corner shop on my own. Everyday I go to ...

My relationship is falling apart! How can I stop this from happening?

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10 February 2011 (F) - We have been dating a year and some months. Lately, it feels like were separating... like he is always working now since he got a job in December. I am proud of him for having a job, but when he isn't working instead of hanging with me he stays ...

Relationship troubles and distracted by another man...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my partner 2 years. On the outside everyone thinks we're perfect for each other and that our relationship is rock solid. They expect us to be a forever couple and comment how we're made for each other. He's a good step dad to my ...

I'm dating 4 women at the same time and juggling a job that requires travel. WHY?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - I find myself in a very strange position, some envy it, some think wtf - no way, others think how stupid are you. I work in a job that ive done for 20 or more years, now at a stage where bar the pennies i would walk away and have tried to do so o...

Getting married in the summer but have developed a crush on a girl!

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10 February 2011 (F) - getting married in the summer to the man of my dreams,couldnt wish for anything more but i have a problem.i have developed a crush on a girl.we know her through a friend,she has a bf too.it started when me and my bf discussed how we both think shes ...

What do you think of this internet relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - so. i've been in an online relationship with a girl. for a year and a half. i was looking for a gf online because i was in a car accident and couldn't leave the house enough to really look for anyone. and it was easy...so i just kept talking to her ...

Why is he insisting on seeing me? He lied about having a girlfriend, which is why I stopped seeing him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - What should I do with my ex? I dated this guy who is 9 years older than me. He kept playing mind games with me throughout the time of us being together. He lied to me about his girlfriend saying they weren't really together when they were. Long ...

Take a break? Or chase after the woman I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - history- me and my girlfriend(or ex), have been together for 2yrs plus.1st year was bumpy, a lot arguments, 2nd year was a bit better than usual, for the last months it was going great. problem, we had a slight argument and had big fight and br...

Do you think he has any feelings or compassion left for me? Should I call him or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years last year because we felt like we were just friends and I had started to like someone else. However, we carried on seeing each other as friends, but occasionally sleeping together. After a couple of months I ...

I think slowing everything down will be a good idea for us. What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Hey All, I am a mess right now, took a week off from work to really deal with this. Here’s the situation, I have been dating my GF for almost 3 years now. We have been through a lot and we became quite comfortable. She still calls me her b...

My boyfriend was released from incarceration. Now his family is influencing him to do illegal things again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend finally came home after being incarcerated for parole violation. The thing is I'm having a hard time being comfortable and dealing with the idea that he's not going to leave me again, in one way or another. I'm feeling very paranoid and ...

What is going on with this girl? I don't want to lose her! What should I do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - I have loved this girl since the moment I met her. The first time we met there was a spark bigger than an atom bomb. The day after that she wrote me a message with "I miss you 3", but I wanted to see if this was really the girl for me, so we met two ...

Is there any way to salvage a friendship from this mess?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Well, there is a much longer story, that I already explained earlier (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/her-family-situation-has-made-her-push-me.html) with lots of vital information, but I'll skip most of it: Basically, a longtime friend ended ...

Stingy boyfriend! Am I asking for too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Have been with my bf for 7mths.i like buying him gifts,but he never gets me anything.he says girls are not suposed to be spoiled with gifts and money.he complains about being broke all the time,but i know he gets 2 have money most of the time.we are ...

Guy out of the blue said he doesn't want a relationship, but we really clicked. Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - So I started talking to this guy about a week ago and we went out on our first date a few days back and had a great time. We really clicked and expressed to each other that we really liked each other. I stayed with him that night since he does live ...

Performance anxiety - her distance and lack of affection is destroying my self esteem.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Backround, im 24. Male, Dating a 23yr old girl.We live in South Carolina by the beach. I go to school and work full time. she works alot. Weve been together for like 18 months now and we live together. We started out great and use to be very intim...

I want her back, should I write a letter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Hey guys, so was dating this girl for almost 2 years and she broke up with me. She never told me why though, but I could figure that out a little myself, we've always been fine but lately both of us were feeling depressed. And seeing as...

Tired of having sex on her terms. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Here's my dilemma: I've moved in with my girlfriend of 14 months. She's had numerous (unknown number) lovers in the past, and she has been my first and only sexual partner. I DON'T want this to be a retroactive jealousy post, but what ...

I want to get rid of this feeling and lead a happy life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I like a guy for almost 1 year and until now I still can't forget about him and the moment with him. Actually he already knew that I like him but he didn't say anything about it and we had went out for lots of times and it's just 2 of us watching ...

What's with the sudden changes? Is he playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Been seeing this guy since Nov and we are not exclusive. Never had that talk. He is a bit of the player kind. i picked up on this. We hang out a few times a week, I stay over watch tv, eat dinner, laugh a lot. We have only gone on a few outside ...

Is my boyfriend gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - is my boyfriend gay ? we're friends for about 6 years,we haven't seen each other for about 2 years...he became my boyfriend 3months ago we shared things and happy moments with my family and his family too, he's very sweet and very loving.....

25 year old male who doesn't want sex? What could be the problem here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - im female and i was just wondering is it normal for a man of 25 to have a very low sex drive he loves oral sex but thats about it he never asks for sex just oral sometimes i have to remind him i have needs to , i dont have a great sex drive but at ...

Is it my paranoia or is this my gut instinct?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Am I in the wrong here? Been seeing marc for over a year. We see each other most nites. We both have insecurity issues, in truth mine are a lot worse than his. But he does ask insecure questions like am I getting bored and sometimes will b...

He's obsessively looking up another woman online!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my b/f for 2 years (living together for 1) and in nearly every respect we're very happy together. He dotes on me and gives me everything I could possibly ask for emotionally and otherwise. He's everything to me and we rarely, if at ...

Why does my boyfriend hate me because I follow his orders?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - What is going on with my boyfriend?! Is he my boyfriend?! I'm so confused. He breaks up with me every other month and gets a new girlfriend, and every time I lock myself up in my bedroom and hide from him and the world. This turns him into a monster ...

I have a perfect boyfriend, but I am sick of him! What is wrong with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year, he is practically perfect, he treats me, he doesnt go in moods, hes not possesive, but i am so sick of him! I dont know whats wrong with me, i really love him but im not attracted to ...

I cant accept he doesn't like me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - hi, i like my cousins best friend,we used to talk on phone but when he met me for the first time he said he didnt feel the connection with me.......now i'm not able to accept this that he doesnt likes me......i really miss him...what to do? ...

He gets SOOO angry! Is this normal?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend grabbed my head and slammed it against the door. He said that I wouldn't shut up (we were having an argument) and that because I followed him through the house (I was trying to get him to talk / listen) then I tip him over the edge and ...

My past love who I'm obsessed with? Or my caring husband? Can you help me sort this out?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

10 February 2011 (?) - I have been married for almost 6 years to a wonderful, caring man who loves me very much. We have 5 kids (2 are from my previous marriage, 3 are ours). My husband and I got married after only 7 weeks and yes I know that is very soon but things have...

Nagging my fiancé...He doesn't mind it but I do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for 4.5 years with a guy in the US Army. Last year he proposed, and I accepted, however, we have only ever met 3 times, but spend hours daily online and on the phone. What started out as two people with ...

I'm obsessed with him. How do I get over the emotional hold he has on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I don't even know where to start...it all sounds so pathetic but unfortunately it is real to me...I have had a man in my life since I was 14. We are now 45. Over the years, we kept in touch, we both married other people, it was always more of a ...

Is he pushing me away beausec he doesn't want me in his life anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - Myself and an old flame from high school recently began talking again, for 1 1/2 yrs now. He and I have gotten close for the last 7-8 mos, we didnt have sex until about 10 months into the relationship. He is in the Army and about to deploy to Afg. ...

My boyfriend is way too controlling and refuses to let go of me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - My bf and I have been together like 9yrs now. In the beginning as always perfect..now its not bad but hes gotten way to jealous. He dosent want me hanging with my girls who he met me with. He dislikes my family all of a sudden, he even hates that I ...

He doesn't want to give up his party ways for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I'm going to make my best effort to make a long story short... My boyfiend (21) and I (20) had been together for three years. Everything seemed to be going well..however, once he turned 21 he started wanting to go out and party with his friends. In ...

Do I deserve a portion of her return for all I've done?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating my girlfriend now for almost two years. We have lived together now for exactly one year. She has a five-year-old son who I love very much that also lives with us. When she moved here we discussed the roles I would play with her ...

Is my girlfriend cheating and being sneaky?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

10 February 2011 (F) - ok so me and my girl have been together goin on two years and lately she has been coming home and always says she's to tired to have sex but she gets off at 3 and then sits for 10 min, and dipss off to her moms house way in warner robins.. is she ...

I'm finally with my GF, but after fending off her vicious ex and a lot of drama in the past. How do I heal myself after all this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - Alright, here is a quick background of myself. I moved around a lot as a kid, (parents divorced when I was 6), learned all about marriages from the multiple ones my mother has been part of. I am an intellectual, a man of principle, and an ...

No erection for the first time ever! What does she think of me now, and will this affect our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

10 February 2011 (M) - I just want to start by giving you a little background on myself before I ask the main question. I am a 31 year old very sexual person. I am almost constantly horny and when I don't have a girlfriend, I usually end up having sex 2-3 times a week ...