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Archived questions from: 23 February, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

We have a beautiful daughter and a nice house, why would he want to put that in jeopardy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My Fiance and I will be together 8 years in May, we have a beautiful daughter who will be 4 in March, we have a house together that we bought 4 years ago. My Fiance recently found an old girlfriend on Facebook and he has be chatting with her for ...

We're toxic in a relationship because of the stuff going on around us. Is it possible to remain friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I started seeing a man a year and a half ago. He was separated but not yet divorced. It was and still is a messy custody battle, and his ex has been diagnosed with personality disorders. This man's life is not stable at all. We have broken up a...

I am baffled and feel really awful. Anyone have any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Maybe someone out there can help me figure this situation out. I am rather puzzled. Last nite my BF of 2 years and I texted back and forth, the usual hello, etc. Then he sent me a couple of risque pictures of himself. I was super excited about ...

I feel they are divorced so they should act like it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating a man for well over a year, we are both divorced with kids. He still hangs out with his ex to do "family time", they go to dinner, movies all day outings and even sometimes they stay at each others houses. The other day he told me ...

Am I being too jealous or should I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is a photographer. I was looking at his messgaes and one of his collegues messaged him, i looked and it turned out he was flirting with her and offered her sex. I looked through his other messages and he told another girl that he loved ...

My fiance jokes all the time. He's never serious anymore. How should I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My fiance always jokes. I am a humorous person and I like to joke, but not as much as he does, which is all the time. For example, when I call to say good morning he answers, “and what do you want now?”, and laughs. I know he loves me so much, ...

At one point he told me he loved me but now he won't even speak to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - just recently reconnected with a ex that I was deeply in love with. He was in love with me as well but things did not work out and we went out seperate ways. We were Emailing and then he gave me his phone # and this then lead into texting. In the ...

I don't come first with my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - It's me again from (two talking diff.languages). I have too many issues concerning my boyfriend. Besides being lazy to initiate anyth like seeing me or calling. I ve difficulty to trust him. He is v.popular ve many friends spec girls from all leve...

She tells me she loves me, but she hasn't stopped hanging out with this other man! Should I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, After three years of being with my girlfriend, things have somewhat fallen apart. Throughout our relationship we have faced challenges, most of them from her children going through that 'rebellious' stage and causing us both a lot of...

She was very promiscous in the past but with me she is boring in the bedroom! What is going on here?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - An interesting quote I found: "You do not need to know too much about her past. Behind the colorful fabrics, that closet has skeletons" I think i need to get this off my chest, I unfortunately don't really have anyone to discuss this with right ...

I am still attracted to her and enjoy sex, but I don't feel like I love her anymore. Should I break up with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - Basically I have been dating this girl for two years now and she's the only girl I have ever dated. She's a great girlfriend but I just feel as if this relationship has ran its course. I may sound horrible but when I'm about to meet up with her to ...

My friend and my boyfriend are messaging each other, should I break up with him or ignore it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My BF and I are totally in love he even asked me to marry him. I told him I would in a few years and we have planned everything out..............Now his parents are a little iffy about him and me dating. Not only b/c of that but b/c he is two years ...

My ex accuses me of being slutty but I'm not!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My partner and I were together for six years. We have two kids together. We are splitting up but can't afford to move out right now so we are currently living in the same house. He is the one who broke up with me but whenever I leave the house (I ...

What can I do to make this situation better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I could use some advice on how to resolve a problem that I have created in my relationship with my boyfriend. You see, he and I have been together for almost 3 years. For 2.5 of them, we have lived together because in order for us to continue the ...

He is cheating on me with a woman online, but still wants to be with me and have me doing all his chores!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - my fiance has been online cheating for at at least a month with some woman in another country they have shared i love you and he said she is special and listens where I supposedly failed to do and he says all I ever thought of was myself, i cooked ...

I really love him but want to be strong and move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (?) - Hello world. Beforehand, I would like to take the time to acknowledge any future responses - it means the world to me and I am forever grateful. I don't which way to put it but I am in deep distress over many aspects of this situation. I met...

Should I be suspicious she suddenly knows different sex positions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - After 4 years of hardly any sex, because my girlfriend wasnt into sex, she suddenly wants more sex and is using positions I never knew she knew. When we had sex before, she would only let me do doggy or missionary. We talked about different ...

Going out with him is so complicated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - i love my boyfriend and he loves me but going out with him is so complicated. what makes it worse is that i work with him so i dont want it to end badly because i love talking to him and hes impossible to avoid at work i work with him on the same ...

Boyfriend's kids caused me trouble with neighbour but I am afraid to speak out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I live alone.My boyfriend and his 2 children came to visit at the weekend. Apparently they vandalised and damaged my neighbour's garden and wrote on his walls. He claims to have a witness to this behaviour. I am probably going to have to pay him ...

18 & pregnant: I'm scared of being alone, but I don't think this relationship can be fixed either.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - i have been with my fiance' for over two years now and we just found out were having a baby.we have been on and off for uite some time and i think its because i don't want to loose what we had when we actually had it.... everythin that goes wrong is ...

My girlfriend doesn't care about me either way. why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - I cheated on my girlfriend with my ex two years ago and she took it hard. It was a bad move because once I started going out with my ex again I realized that it was my girlfriend that I loved and not her. So i went bck to my girlfriend but she ...

6 months pregnant, 16 and boyfriend treating me badly

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - well i am 16 years old. and i am now 6 months pregnant with a son of my boyfriend for 3 years. he wanted me to get an abortion but i couldn't bring myself to do it. he kind of got used to the idea or so i thought. now he is treating me like shit by ...

A man trying to love a once abused woman......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is 20yrs old and she just recently got out of a physcially abusive relationship about 1yr ago. How do I get her to understand that I love her and would nevet hurt her the way she has been hurt by her ex. I also dont wanna have to keep ...

Is it abnormal to be extremely jealous of my boyfriend's guy friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My question is, is it abnormal to be extremely jealous of my boyfriend's guy friends? I get highly annoyed when my boyfriend talks about how he "bro'ed out" with some guys. He sometimes tells me he needs a guy friend to just relieve stress. I'm ...

Why is my married lover cooling off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - i have had this "friends with benefits" for 4years now but he has been moving the relationship forward on an honest level the last year and a half too top that off i was pregnant 3 times the last pregnancy he seemed upset i didnt go through with the ...

I'm hopelessly in love with an alcoholic

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - My heart is so heavy with guilt. I love an alchohlic he is more rotten the older he gets. Such a waist of life. I can't help him, and so deeply want to. I need help, I quit on him for the saftey of my children and me. But it just doesn't seem ...

I give her $5000.00 2 days later she splits! How do I get my money back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - I thought I knew her for 5 years! We were together for that amount of time. She (aged 50) asked me for 5 thousand dollars. I gave it to her. 2 days later she split. Does the timing of the two events sound that she had every intention to 'screw' ...

After hearing about my past he doesn't think he can touch me again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Hi!I'm in a relationship for a year now and I've told him things about my past that maybe I shouldn't tell him. But I don't take him as a fool coz he deserved better specially if there's talk about the future. I won't say I have a good past but few ...

Pregnant by narcissistic ex, he doesn't know...but should he?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Ok, I will try to keep this as short as possible. My ex has Narcissistic Personality Disorder (he was never diagnosed, but I've read about it and I'm positive that's his problem). He has abused me in every way possible - emotionally (tha...

We are not together anymore but he still lives with me and people assume we are still a couple!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I really hope someone out there can help me,I really do.I'm in my 30's and my 'partner' is 17 years older than me.We have 4 kids together,and I'm pregnant also.I wanted another child really badly,and needed help to conceive,so when I discovered I ...

Boyfriend is not responding to my texts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - i been texting my boyfriend and he is not texting me back and i am not sure what to do ? any advice...this hashappened before...i love my boyfriend lotz.....

If he doesn't want a relationship then why is he going on dates?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - Hi there, I met this guy about 6 months ago, we are really close friends, he has helped me through so much and I've been there for him whenever he needs help. But lately I've really fallin for him. I've told him my feelings and he's said to me ...

Am I an accessory to cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - ok i feel disgusted with myself but, ok my bestfriend [guy] likes this girl, and he asked her out last week and she answered today and said yes, and i did not know this and he tells me he wants his first kiss with me, so im like aww not knowing he ...