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Archived questions from: 6 February, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm such a good boyfriend, so why is she all quiet with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend has been giving me short answers and not really talking to me. This morning we were doing just fine, she went and got drunk last night and I didn't really think to care much of it. I deleted my Face Books and stuff, and she's kind of ...

Her mother has waged a war against me!!!

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6 February 2011 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for a good 8 months now. Everything is good except her mom. I am 18 years old, shipping off to the Air Force this summer. My girlfriend is 17. A little background information: My girlfriend is Hispanic and her...

The trust for my boyfriend is gone... what do I do?

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6 February 2011 (F) - i had one (x)friend but just he is poor i m taking with him he take me as a granted he force on me to call me , to meet me i m scared about him . i told to my family members.after 4-5 months i got admission in new coll where i met to one guy i like ...

Do you know why my sudden lack of sex drive could have happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - I am 23 years old and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years. I love him to pieces and for about the first 3 years of our relationship we were constantly having sex but within the last 2 years my sex drive has gone from normal to nearly none ...

Should I call?

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6 February 2011 (F) - hi, I am with a guy for almost a year now, but he was my ex from a previous relationship, that relationship was (and still) in my heart and my mind stands as my first true love, I have lost contact with him almost three weeks now, the last time I ...

Player... or used???

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6 February 2011 (F) - I am 19 and I have being seeing someone for the last 3 months. Hes 26, has a good job and we live really close to each other. He added me over facebook but I did'nt know him as he was older. We have being going out for meals and lately I have being ...

HE'S doing things he would never accept from me!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Dear cupids, advice please cos I'm hurting :( My boyfriends 33 I'm 23. I deleted my Facebook cos he was always jealous when old friends tried adding me etc. To cut a long story short he is very jealous and controlling. Anyways when I was on Faceb...

Is she really upset or wants me to know it's over or is she thinking about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - I was with a girl on and off for 7 years. We did have some good times but also argued a lot. Most of the arguments lately have been about me moving in. She lives about an hour and a half from me. I kept telling her when i get my finances ...

I feel we're drifting further apart over this... help!

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6 February 2011 (F) - hi. I need all kinds of advice on this one. my bf and I have been together for two years. he owns a company that does gigs and his partner's girlfriend is/was also one of his best buddies of a few years. she is also part of the company although...

Desperate for help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Hi. I really don't know where to start but I really need some help. Desperately. I am 33-year old female and have been in a relationship with a very nice man for about 20 months, however, my mental health problems are making a relationship close to ...

Happily married, with downfall?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - It's been two years now, and my husband and I started out so happy together. The connection was instant. But I moved states away. We kept emailing each other. He kept insisting for us to try things again, to try a real relationship. At the time I ...

It feels like I put more into relationships with others than they put in. If I want more appreciation then should I look for better friends than I have now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, Everyday I feel more and more underapperciated by the people around me. I am the one always inviting people over, Cooking the meals, planning events, etc. lately, I have asked others to bring a dish and a six pack to share to my music...

Is he losing his affection for me? How should I view his change towards me

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6 February 2011 (F) - hey iv'e been with my boyfriend 4 months, but recently he and i have been acting weird. its probably just me but yea.. :/ well we had eachother in our msn names like "j....." and "s....." but today he removed me from his msn name altogeth...

I`m doing all the legwork and she contributes little

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - I'm in a long distance relationship. 700kms between us, and we've been together for over a year now. In that time, I've visited my girlfriend nine times. I've always done all of the travelling. I have flown, caught buses, trains and driven long ...

I've lost the desire to have sex with him

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6 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for three years. At first our sex life was great, but now, I never seem to want it. He has put on a bit of weight recently and I find it off putting. I know this shouldn't matter when you love someone, but I can't help ...

Just had a baby w/my estranged husband who's dating someone else...Should I divorce him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - I apologize for my long description but truly appreciate any and all advice. I am embarrassed about the sitaution I have put myself in but thought you should have a thorough explanation. I just had a baby with my estranged husband who is dating ...

How can I express my feelings and opinions without upsetting my family or disrespecting the rules of my culture?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Hi, over here where I live, we are captive of our customs and traditions. The biggest hindrance is the respect for family elders. I know my rights and privileges, but I am still unable to exercise them, so, literally, I have no say about my personal ...

After a turbulent relationship, should I give him space, and how long?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Here is my story in chronological order. After several break ups and being cheated on twice in two relationships, I came to a conclusion in 2008 that I would be ready to get married to anyone who is ready to give me a commitment. During this ...

What should I do to regain her interest? Advice needed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - Ok, so I've been dating this girl I met a couple of months ago. And it started off great! She was crazy about me and she had strong feelings towards me. She loved my personality, my confidence, my great sense of humor... Things were going very ...

Can you truly love someone and yet have sex with someone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - I have another posting with more details and a different question, but after reading some other posts (and just being honest with myself) I feel this question needs to be answered as well. Long story short, I met an amazing girl, we had a perfect...

Due to insecurity I'm seeing a Dr. Is it a good idea to bring my BF to my therapy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I often post messages on this board because it seems as if I often have relationship problems. I am still living with my boyfriend but we're going through something right now, and he says he needs to think about what he really wants...

Married man is finally free, will our marriage work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - I have been dating a man older than me by 25yearrs for about 3years.I'm 21years old now.Now that he and his wife are nolonger together,I am sceptical that our marriage(he proposed) will work.Am I being unfair on us? I do love him but looking ...

I didn't tell my abusive ex that we now have a daughter because I'm afraid what he might do

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - I left my very abusive husband 2009 while I was three months pregnant. I had been living in a safe house to escape his verbal abuse which was making me ill to the point of not being able to eat. I had lost so much weight I couldn't stand up at one ...

I'm in love with my ex's cousin. Should we start dating or will this hurt the family too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Ok, so here is the gist of it, I have been in a relationship with my man for 10 yrs, and we have 3 kids. I thought I was happy until I met his cousin. We started talking on the phone blah blah.... We move to the same area where I can be around his ...

Why is my boyfriend behaving differently now that I am pregnant?

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6 February 2011 (F) - I am pregnant 4 my long time boyfriend. we love each other no doubt about that,but i have personal problems with him since this pregnancy. I got to know i was pregnant after he travelled out,though there was indecision problem if we should keep it ...

In the beginning he was attentive. Now he ignores me. Does he still need me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - My bestfriend and I have recently started dating. Before us dating he used to like me a lot and I wasn't really that much into him. He tried his best and we finally started dating. Now, he just doesn't seem to care as much as he did before. We don'...

I'm in love with a girl who has been through a lot. What on earth should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - Hello. I've gotten myself into a mess of a relationship and its driving me insane, so I figured it can't hurt to tell my story and see if someone has a word of wisdom to share. Its a long story so I'll get too it. Here it is: I am 17 years old and ...

My partner wants me to abort his child ... please advise me on what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - I just broke up with my Turkish boyfriend, as he was not happy that I am pregnant. He had promised to marry me and even went to meet my parents to ask for my hand in marriage. We have been spending lots of time together since then, until I to...

I talk to his friends before I talk to him about our problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - my man and i have known each other 4almost 6 years we went from him giving me advice on my gf trouble at the time thn saw him streak through the mall when i was thr with my gf and now we have been dating 4 two years and we have a 7 mnth old, we ...

I'm guessing I should give up on this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Alright so i'm guessing maybe i should give up on this guy? I met him half a year ago, over summer he was a consistent customer coming into the place where i worked and buying food when he had work breaks. He'd always say hello and chat but not long ...

She tore us apart and I'm afraid its happening again

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6 February 2011 (F) - My problem is with my boyfriend of 10 years ! Just recentley we split apart because I stayed out with friends until the wee hours of the morning, so in return he ended are relationship stating I was hard to deal with and he wasn"t happy ! So I got ...

What do I do after I leave my abusive boyfriend?

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6 February 2011 (F) - I just sent my boyfriend to jail tonight....because he hit me. Backhanded me in specific...I have been with him for 3 years in march of this year...hes been verbally abusive to me for as long as i can remember. yes the relationship has had its good ...

Can't stop thinking of boyfriend's past!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Before I start, I'm going to give a little information that you may want to know. I'm 19, female and have a boyfriend whose age 25. (Age isn't the issue, ignore the age difference). We are online dating and have been with each other for 1 year and...

It hurts when we make plans and then he blows me off

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - ok sooo recently i've been sleeping over my bfs house a lot and he loves it. problem is he lives with his friends family. usually during the day he goes to work and we hang out later that night. lately in the morning he keeps telling me he wants to ...

Am I just being a paranoid twit?

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6 February 2011 (F) - I am at my wits end in my relationship and i really dont know what to do.I dont trust my partner at all, we have been together for 8 years have one 7 year old boy and our daughter on the way... I am so insecure around other girls, especially of they ...

My Fiance is in Prison... Should I stand by him or move on?

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6 February 2011 (F) - Hello, My fiance and me been together for almost 3 years. He is in prison and I visit him every week. As of the end of January we had an argument at the visit and he got up in visit and I was very embarrased. He told me hes not chasing the visi...

My own insecurities are ruining an otherwise great relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - My own insecurities are ruining an otherwise great relationship. I have tried therapy several times and pray for help to overcome these terrible insecurites. I trust my man not to cheat on me and in all other ways. I am attractive and do not look ...

S It Sex Or Commitment Issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5044 days ago

6 February 2011 (M) - Hey im a 22 year old male. Two weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me after being together for a little over a year. One day we were texting and she said she didn't want to do anything wit me anymore (meaning sex). When i called her to inquire a...

Have I lost him completely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5044 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - So there is this guy i met him a year ago and recently had a really close mutual friend of ours die so i thought it was nice as we said we would help each other through this However on my birthday he told me he liked me we have slept together before ...

Is she genuine or using me as a way to find someone else?

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6 February 2011 (M) - hi there im a 23 year old and i recently broke up from a 7 year relationship.i first met her when i was 15 and she was 31 and had a daughter.a couple of years i had 2 kids of my own.now that the relationship is over im havin difficulty coping.i ...