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Archived questions from: 9 February, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend won't celebrate Valentine's Day and I'm disappointed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I've been having problems with my boyfriend, he smokes (cigs), drinks (even though he's underage), and uses very dirty language. I've often felt that he is dragging me down to his level. Recently, I moved out of my parent’s house into an apartment ...

My friends dislike my boyfriend and want me to dump him. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - hi :) I'm 15 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months. He is quite rude to most people and he is always really rude to some of my closest friends. He is always getting into arguments and insulting them, especially 'Amy'. Amy is qu...

He ripped me off..and my best friend still talks to him! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - So here is my problem: So me and my exfriend done business together. So he cheated me a stole money I invested. This business was based on trust so there is nothing I can legally do about it. This crushed me because I lost 2000$. I was going to b...

Is this relationship hopeless?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of almost 5 years, has caused me a lot of heartache. I love him dearly, but I am very attached to him. We are both in our 30's and much too old to be dealing with these issues. But overall, 3 years ago I found out everything about him ...

Jealousy is ruining our relationship. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 1 year and a half almost and we live together for a year as well and i am very jealous and everytime we go out anywere i catch him looking a girls butt i think that maybe its me and i think that all guys do ...

Marriage, communication and relationships...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - hello i dnt know where to start about my question but maybe i will start my story n the beginning im 3 years marriage and have 2 kids i met my husband thru online long distance relationship, b4 i met my husband he was broken hearted coz his fiance ...

People do not seem to like me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - i donot know how to start really... i am a mom of three children and happily married. my problem can be summed up in a few words. PEOPLE DO NOT SEEM TO LIKE ME. this problem goes way back since my childhood. i barely had friends and the same problem ...

Sex Education...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - heres a question to all the agony aunts and uncles.... both sexes are welcome to give their opinion over this touchy mattter.... my bf and i fought today because basically i feel i dont want my daughter to be taught sex in a co-ed class, and he got ...

I have an obsession to help needy men!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - What is wrong with me? I dont understand why my relationships dont work. I know I have a problem and an obsession to help men. I always take guys who is NOTHING unemployed etc etc. Allow them to move in with me and my 2 kids !!! Help them to ...

Married man wants me but I don't want him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Hi Cupids. Can you give me some advice on how to handle a married man who I see everyday? We are both in relationships but have had an attraction between us. I do not want it to go any further. I have tried to distance myself in the past but keep ...

Past issues with my boyfriend are making me not trust him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years. We argue excessively, to the point where he calls me hateful names such as 'bitch' and 'dickhead' and then accuses me of being over-emotional when I become upset. Last year, I found texts on...

Tough Love...what to do? My boyfriends a bigger handfull then I ever imagined

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. He goes to counseling once a week, is on antidepressants and anti anxiety medication. When we first met he was soo soo sweet (I really thought I got super lucky) but now we are living together in a ...

Why won't my boyfriend stand up for me and correct his mom?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriends mum called me trailer trash and that she thought so hard to get me excepted into his family because s have 2 children already. At one point his mum was ill and she assume's i stopped him seeing but he has not corrected her because he ...

Less sex than we used to have -- is his attraction fading?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I am 21 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for almost seven years now. We have been living in r own apartment for almost two years. Sometimes I feel like his attraction for me has gone down BC sometimes well have sex three times a week and ...

Does he truly love me despite him cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - He cheated on me with a girl that treats him like shit. But he keeps coming saying he misses me and he knows that I'm the one. Recently, we got back together and that one girl he cheated on me with wants to be back with him. I didn't cry as he's ...

What on earth was with this guy's behavior?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Hi, This thing has been bothering me since last thursday. I'll begin at the beginning of that day first. I was walking into walk that day. I opened the swing-doors a few minutes later when I was walking inside and I saw this man I know next to the...

Why won't he accept that it is over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Nine months ago, my married man left his wife of 3 years. He said he did it for me, which I never asked of him and I don't believe he did, I think I was just an excuse. He moved in with me for 2 months and moved out again and now shares a house ...

In love with a woman who is an abusive relationship! Should I wait for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - So I met this girl at work a few months ago and I developed feelings for her. Come to find out she also developed feelings for me. Problem is, she has been with a guy for 5 years and has two children with him. He is emotionally, and on occasion, ...

Sometimes I just wish my boyfriend would cheat on me! It would make things so much easier

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I can't stop thinking about an online friend. I have thought about other people previously but never acted on it. I am nearly 25 years old and have been with my partner for nearly 8 years. Before him I had 1 other boyfriend of a few months whom ...

She doesn't know that I know about the kiss

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - i kknow my girlfriends kissed anotehr person but she doesnt know i know. What do i do now...?...

Our arguments are ruining our relationship. Now is mother is interfering! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I'm really upset. My boyfriend and I have been on and off for a few years. We have been arguing recently. Last weekend, we argued because he was asleep all day and night for a couple of days. Although, I do feel sorry for him because he has a back ...

This man has given me mixed signals! What do you do when they pull away???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Hello. Any advice from men/women would be greatly appreciated. I need some opinions as I just do not know what to think about this one and how to act or even if I am overreacting! Seeing this guy, who originally I saw maybe once/twice a wee...

Is my husband gay or bi? What should I do???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - My husband (of 27 years) was sexually abused when he was 8, by a man. Over a year ago I caught him looking at gay porn. He said he does not enjoy it does not masturbate to it, that it is just some sick obsession he has, almost like a self ...

My husband's mistress faked a pregnancy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - My husband's mistress faked a pregnancy and he asked her to terminate the pregnancy. They had many ugly fights following that. Then he finally told me yesterday that she said she isn't pregnant and just wanted to see if he cares about her. Since ...

My partner wants sex every night! How can I convince him to cuddle with me when I am too tired to perform?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I recently posted about my partner wanting me to dress up in sexy underwear before I get into bed, i somehow got through to him that it was getting unreasonable.. the problem still remains however that he wants 'a load off' EVERYNIGHT! I already ...

My girlfriend is distant and she acts like I don't exist! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - Recently, my girlfriend has become distant, especially since her mum and son went on holiday. Now, she's acting like I don't exist anymore. What should I do? ...

Is this woman really pregnant, or is she trying to blackmail me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I had an affair with a married woman. She is 40+ and I’m 20+. I’m single. After we broke up, I didn't see her for a few weeks. One day, we had dinner together. After dinner, she told me she is pregnant now. It was a terrible shock....

My ex is about to propose to another woman. How can I get him back before it's too late?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Six years ago, my boyfriend of 2 years and I were going through a rough patch and were on and off til one day it just stayed off. Eventually, we broke off contact and went our separate ways, but I loved him very much still and didn't want the break ...

How can I start trusting him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Well, how to start this, i have a bf and we are together for about 2 years. And for these past few month, i somehow know that he is cheating on me with his ex gf. He was dump badly with this girl and thrown him away from her life. That girl cheated ...

In love with a girl while in rehab...but her chequered past and questionable actions have launched me into a terrible dilemma...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a 34 years old male. I was in a rehab for 5 months recently. I had been through a terrible heart break about 3 years back when the girl that I have loved since I was 14 married another guy. It's complicated, she married another ...

My boyfriend left me for another girl saying " he's happier and in love with her, she's a better kisser, better body and more beautiful"..Any chance he might come back to me after all this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - With my ex for quite a while I was his longest relationship. We had a fight and we decided to break up and than talk 2 days later. He begged for me back but when he came to the day to talk he said he needed time. Little did I know that his best mate ...

He thinks there is more out there for him than me, but eventually we will end up together! So should I wait for him to play the field before he comes back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - So me and my ex have been in this hot and cold relationship for about 4 months. we both have the same feelings for each other because he told me he fights his feelings for me back. and when i asked why he said because he knew it wouldnt work because ...

Should I continue to love this man or back off and get my emotions in check?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - ok so i have already posted a question before about my situation but i only recieved one response.. now things have gotten a little more complicated, and i really really need some advice.. ok so i have been seeing and sleeping with this guy for ...

My wife's ego-devastating details of her sex life with her former Latin lover have led me to have terrible feelings of inadequacy and resentment...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - I am in need of some advice. Background: I have been married to my wife for 13 years. She ended things with her previous boyfriend to start dating me. Shortly after we became intimate she implied that her former Latin lover (almost every wo...

I think a troubled student is attracted to me and it makes me uncomfortable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Theres this student at the school I teach who has become weirdly attatched to me. This is my first year of teaching i'm an 8th grade history teacher. This girl actually blurted out that shE got raped to me!! I didn't know if I should tell guidance ...

My boyfriend called me a breeding sob!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend off and on over two years.We've been together 8 month this time.He's not sexually active,we have sex maybe once every three months.The other nite a mutual friend of ours came over with her boyfriend.She was talkin about ...

My feelings are confused about my ex and the girl I am dating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - Yesterday i'd joined a marriage ceremony of my friend's sister.. And it was night marriage.. Me and my two other friend reached there.. And there was present my ex girlfriend who got broke up with me for next guy.. We all had not slept whole night.. ...

Boyfriend is rude to me. Is it because he's comfortable with me now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - so me and my bf have been together for about 4 months and since then things have really changed. I feel like he doesnt like me as much and hes recently become kind of ruder to me. not exactly rude but he has gained a lot of attitude and i feel like ...

Girlfriend wants to be paid for helping with my child

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Ok.. this may get long winded so bare with me.. I am hoping some1 can either tell me im stupid or make me feel better. My girlfriend and I have been living together for 1 year. I have a child and she has help w/ the child by getting him from school ...

This girl lies to me all the time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - I and my girl has been for the past 1yr she still lie and cheat on me.She was dating a married man before i met her,we just had a little problem and she went back to him. but she still claims that she had nothing to do with him. She alway lie all ...

I need long distance relationship advice ASAP!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

9 February 2011 (M) - Hi... So I was living in a different part of the state for work when i met this amazing girl in October 2010. We went on 3 dates and became boyfriend/girlfriend. We both did this knowing that I had to temporarly move 450 miles away for 6 months, ...

I have not met his parents and this is really bugging me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

9 February 2011 (F) - Ive been seeing my boyfriend over a year now and everythings going ok but something is really bugging me to the point that i am thinking of ending things. I have not meet his parents and its making me feel like he is not serious about the ...