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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Help!!! Is my boyfriend lying to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - What do you think? is my boyfriend lying to me? did he sleep with her? My boyfriend said he wanted a break from our relationship to clear his head. I gave him space. He rang me lots, left me voice messages and when he still couldn't reach me he em...

My relationship is a never-ending battle

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I have been married to my husband for almost two years. It seems like it is a fight just to stay together though. It started when i was pregnant with our daughter. I worked and was going to college, both full time. During my maternity leave, I was ...

We differ in opinion and he calls it a day nearly every few weeks now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I have been seeing a guy who lives 50 miles away and we only meet at week-ends due to work commitments. We have both had problems adapting as we have both lived alone for years. When we used to argue I would get up and leave and go home. I ...

16 years and our sex life is rare now! What gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my partner now for 16 years we have a son and both have baggage from our past for the last couple of years our sex life has become rare! But a lot of this was down to me medically but the last few months nothing at all, he recently ...

How do I confront my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been going thru a rough patch the last year, he accused me of cheating on him ended it with me. We desided to work things out after that I found he was chatting with girls on match.com and even tried to meet with them. We went ...

High school sweetheart has come back into my life... Advice needed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Ok im having a horrible, horrible time here.... I have a husband that has Anxiety, Manic-Depressive, and Bi-polar.. Been through ups and downs for the past 5 years with my husband.. Gone through mental hospitals, suicides.. ect. Well for the past...

I wanna stop gettin violent with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I wanna stop gettin violent with my boyfriend, when we get pissed off we tend too break things, an throw stuff, an say hurtful things, how did we get like this? I don't want every argument too have this outcome, an latley its been me doing it. Wats ...

My boyfriend lied!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend lied, an I asked for advise on here an I got very good advise, an Iv been putting it too the test,an I went outside too smoke an I sat in his car, an his phone was in there so I know shouldn't of done it but I picked it up an went threw ...

My partner is jealous of me learning to dance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My partner of three years doesn't want me to go to dancing lessons because they change partners every few minutes. It is quite a common way for dancing classes to be, by changing partners. I have just started lessons but my partner can't go ...

Has anyone ever felt as though there were a spiritual cause for their sufferings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Does anybody ever felt, there might-be some kind of a spiritual cause behind their sufferings? Like karma, or curse or something like that? Because I can't see any good explanation for the consistent deterioration of my life. It is also strange, no ...

Should I stay and fight or let her go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - I have been in and out of a long distance relationship with a girl for over 3 years now. We have known each other for a long time as we've run in similar circles and we've been great friends even prior to our relationship. She is 10 years older ...

What I don't understand is why would she have sabotaged this relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I broke up last week. We had been dating for a year. The first 6 months were great and we never fought. The last 6 months have been turbulent with episodes of fights and making up almost on a monthly basis. The periods between ...

She broke up saying the relationship had become a burden

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I got to know my ex-gf in Q4 2009, we share some same interests and hobbies, and it wasn't long before we got together. The relationship lasted for 9 months, and it was her first relationship. It was a wonderful one, and I thought we made ...

She finally confessed her infidelity. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - This is a very confused guy who loves her girlfriends of 6 years to bits. However,my Girlfriend finally confessed to me the guy entered her but stopped when she shouted because it hurt. (From the description, I know personally how difficul...

She doesn't show me any affection when I try to have sex with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - me and my girl have been together for 7 years and she dont show me any affection when i try to have sex with her it's always a problem. what do that mean?...

I'm feeling very upset by the way my boyfriend is treating me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My boy friend ignore me from last few day. we have 1.5 years. Now last 7th month he was in kolkata, and i live in siliguri. some time he talk to me like a baby, immature he is i thought. but in night when he talk to me, i am just sex toy for him. i ...

She wanted space, broke up, and already she's in a new relationship. Why will she not answer my questions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - My ex of 25 months and I broke up but a week after we broke up she got into a relationship. She say with a dude she said was her friend. When I ask is she moving on, she won't answer my ? She wants our 8 by 10 photo we took, the promise ring, and ...

He has a picture of his ex and their son, but not one of me and our son!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - hi there i need an advise. my bf has still picture of his ex gf with thier son on his computer. and he doesnt have picture of me and our son! im hurt and feels that his disrespecting me. why woud he save it if im with him? does it mean he still love ...

Is it ok for my girlfriend to be kissing her female friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - hey guys i have soemthing to ask you all is it okay when the girls kinda kiss each other, not with tongue though, but just kissing, my girlfriend is doin this with her friends and its really pissing me off :S i always tell her to stop doin it but...

Is he waiting for me to dump him or am I being neurotic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Hi Guys, I met this man back in September and we see each other every other weekend, as he lives 300 miles away. He calls me every night, sends 2 txts each day, morning and goodnight. He is very busy with work and he has a child (the child doesnt ...

I dumped her, yet I'm turning into a wuss over her. What's a good action plan to get me coping again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - What is wrong with me? I broke up with a woman 16 months back but I'm obsessed with keeping tabs on what she doing. My obsession is taking over my life. I hardly eat, my condo's filthy, I don't go out. I feel like I'm married to my laptop and b...

Do we need some sort of help? my fiance and I have fought everyday since we started living together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My fiance and I decided to move in together, before we got married. We have only been living together a little over a week and already argued everyday. The arguments are usually really stupid but I feel like we just get on each others nerves. I k...

Is he going to try to cheat on me with this woman he admitted to wanting to sleep with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend told me, when he was very drunk (I was drunk too, and pushing) about a female friend of his that he'd like to sleep with. Anyhow, now he's been spending more time/ paying more attention to her. Should I be worried? Is he going to try to ...

That kiss meant so much to me, what did it mean to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Hello all, I have been obsessing about this for days now and I would really love some advice. Ok so here is the whole story. I met this guy about 3 or 4 years ago and we were only friends through my boyfriend at the time. Well about a year and a ...

Why am I still not over this girl and what can I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - Here's the basis of the background story: I transferred schools (from public to private) my sophomore year in high school, first day of school I saw the most beautiful girl I had ever seen and ended up having three other classes with her and ...

Why is he acting this way? Is it him or is it me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - This guy in my class, we used to joke around and actually talk to each other. Then out of the blue, suddenly, he started being more distant. Like, back then, if we were put together it'd be fun. We'd talk and everything. Now, it's like he completely ...

A lot on his plate or am I losing him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I recently started seeing this guy. We met during our office Christmas party, we made out a few times that night! We've been out together a few times since then, he's usually send me texts every once and a while and would initiate the dat...

Should we put up with her sabotage games due to her "social phobia" or not waste our energy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my DH have these friend that I met over the net 2.5 years ago. Orginally my husband made friends with her husband over the internet due to the fact that they had almost everything in common. Little by little the other guys wi...

Why did my ex say he wants my new partner to be the father to our child, and he doesn't want to be involved in our son's life anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I dated this guy for about 3 years and we have a kid together but we are seperated and im with someone else..My ex came up to me a few days ago and told me that i should tell my new boyfriend to be the father of our son and that he didnt want to be ...

He wants a break - has he got cold feet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend of 8 years just asked for a break one week ago. He says he needs time to think about us and just concentrate on work. The request for a break came at a time where everything is ok in our relationship. Some backround on us,In the ...

He says he isn't in love with me anymore... however his behavior is strange....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I have known this guy for 7 years and we have dated on and off. After knowing him for about 2 years I decided I was in love with him. He told me that he was in love with me the day he met me. Him and I didn't speak for a while (years) and he got ...

Girl living with me could be trying to steal my man. How can I prevent this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, umh, im thirteen and im having a problem. well, accually a few.... and i need some help. Umh, so, i have this "sister" (a girl that lives with me" and shes sorta.... the type that puts out.... probally what 90% of people would consider ...

I have my reasons why I feel like my ex is still watching me. How can I best distance myself from him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Hello Aunts, i was let go by my guy nine months and few days ago. I closed my aol account, changed telephone details. I'm frightened my ex is watching me. I'm not with a replacement guy yet. Is he watching out for any replacement guy for me be with...

My boy friend has started being aggressive to me. Is dumping him the best idea?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend was great when we were friends but when we started going out he. Since then he's changed. He's started acting more aggresive, controlling, rude, ect. and when I wanted to talk to him about it, he broke up with me on Facebook and then ...

What I should do or what should I have done. I am still in shock to find my husband also cheated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Dear All, I have always been a faithful wife. I even looked down on those whom got their lives messed up by having an affair. A little over a year ago, I ran into a man whom counseled my ex and I when I went through the divorce. I was so m...

I don't want our relationship to end on this sour note. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - I was in an odd relationship, I dated a wonderful girl for 1.5 years. We lived together, we had great and bad times, but we loved each other. She moved to Georgia after college to be with her family. I stayed in Wisconsin for I had a job and house. ...

I'm unfaithful and it's killing me!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - I have been married for 10 years to the man I loved, and we have 2 wonderful children. After 4 happy years, a big issue based on my hubby's "unfair" suspicions, almost made our marriage collapse. We managed to overcome the matter but without going ...

Should I break things off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - Here is the thing. I met a girl who was interested in me before. She broke up with an a**hole who treats her like ****, but got her pregnant. Everything was great at first; I told her how I felt about her, she said she was in love with me too. I ...

Her parents are trying to keep her from dating me! They even discussed a restraining order!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

2 February 2011 (M) - Hey, me and my girl have been going out for 8 months now, It is a long distance relationship. We get to see each other every 3 or 4 months, for a week or 2. We have learned a ton about each other, since all we do is talk, I love her, and she loves ...

How do people make up after arguments?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - How do people make up after arguments? My soon-to-be ex used to say that because I started most arguments (it is true), I should make up to him. He would refuse to give me any affection because I would not, in his words, deserve it for abusing him ...

My boyfriend hasn't tried to reach me in 2 days! How long should I wait before contacting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) - Hi my bf of 1.5 years is acting out weird lately. Always finding excuses not to call me or hang out with me. He is acting like real jerk, heavely fliting with other girls and stuff. I started to think he lost interest in me, so i stopped cal...