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Archived questions from: 21 February, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I wasting my time hoping he'll grow up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in a long distance relationship and things are working out pretty great. Being apart isn't easy but it's not the problem. The problem is my boy is 19 and lives with his mom. Next year he's moving out to go to college. But he ...

I feel like he could have done better scheduling a holiday for us - am I right to be upset?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Hi Aunts, After a busy Summer Semester, I was looking forward to my ONE week of holidays before Uni starts again. I'd suggested to my boyfriend that we might go to one of our beach houses for a few days. He never really wants to go away for long...

We have been through so much recently. Is this just our relationship being tested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (?) - My BF and I broke up about a month ago over several issues that have existed in our relationship for quite some time. During our relationship, we broke up a couple of times, but have managed to work through them, talk it out and re-build our ...

Has my teacher got feelings for me?or is he just being nice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I've reposted this question to hoping to get more answers I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight awa...

I'm not sure if she feels the same...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - My Gf and I have been dating for just over 2 and a half years.We both work, and she also has a 3 year old daughter which I love to bits,although she is not mine. I love my Gf,but not sure if she feels the same way about me.We only see each ...

Can I get into my boyfriend's email and computer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for four years now this year.We don't really get along well but he helps me out in any way he can. I don't ask for it but he helps. I guess the things that bother me is the facts we are always on each other for one ...

I need to move on, he's got a girlfriend and just wants to sleep with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (?) - I feel so pathetic asking for help but this is my last resort. I think what happened last night was the straw that broke the camels back, so to speak. I'm going to try and cut this very long story short. I met up with a guy who i hadn't seen for ...

My boyfriend is TOO protective and I can't talk to my male friends!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - OMG. This is driving me crazy. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and I love him dearly. But he is SO protective. I mean PROPER. I have more male friends than female friends and he doesn't like me talking to any of them. Whenever I leave...

What defines a soul mate and how can you tell who is likely to be a soul mate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - I always believed there was a person out there for everyone but after my gf of 2 years who was the love of my life and I broke up I have sort of lost faith in relationships and am quite weary to get into another one in the near future. What do you ...

My wife won't let me move on!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - My wife and I separated 3 years ago when our son was 2. She was caught cheating and I left our home. Almost a year ago I met a woman who took my breath away. She was in the process of divorce and we became best friends. 4 months later our ...

Did he go to the pub for a pint or was he "helping" another woman in need?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I am employed part time. I am also self employed in two other jobs. I don't have any qualifications or experience in a particular industry so I don't get paid a huge amount. My partner works full time. He has fifteen years experience in his line of ...

Do you think this man has lost interest in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Last spring, I hit it off with a guy, who was charming and doting and looked at me like the world would end if he turned away. After a few weeks we had our first kiss and slept together. We had a couple more great nights talking and drinking and ...

A friend a mine has given me a second ultimatum! I feel she is crossing the line. What do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Okay, I'm embarrassed to even be posting this. It's sad that middle age people have to even indulge in the following behavior. Let me explain: I have a friend who we will call Sue. Sue and I have been friends for over 2 years. We met online and h...

Do I have the right to be concerned about his porn use, and the fact that he lied about his facebook friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend almost a year now and everything is absolutely perfect to me. I've never loved a man the way I love him. I've been in relationships before, but we both feel we’re made for each other. He treats me very good, but sometimes ...

For the past 4-5 months I've been irritable, impatient, angry, and eating comfort foods. How do I combat this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (?) - Hello all, For the past 4-5 months, I don't know why, but I am getting very impatient with everything. Impatient and Angry. I have a bad attitude towards everything and my eating habits are out of control. I'm rude to my parents and other fa...

I have had a lucky escape from this relationship. So why do I feel so bad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I recently split up from a man, still in the very very early stages of a relationship because he shared some information about himself that made me scared to get involved with him. He said he had been very damaged by his abusive upbringing and now ...

I need some advice, to help my friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - My best-friend, has being dating this girl for year and a month now. last Friday she wrote him a text massage saying she knew what she was about to tell him wound hurt him but prayed that he would understand. Then she said she was putting everything ...

She just wants to be friends and I want more. It is driving me crazy! Should I leave her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - Hi Agony Aunts, i am wondering if you can pls. help me with a problem that is driving me crazy. I have a friend whom i am feeling very close to. she just wants to be friends. but the closer i get to her the more i feel i am falling in love with her...

I cant stand his children and I don't know what to do anymore!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - im thinking i really need some advice from someone who isnt a family member and can see this from my p.o.v, ive been with my now fiancee for 2 years he has 4 kids from a previous marriage. i already set myself up as this guy is 35 and i am 22, he ...

How can I trust my boyfriend more, now he is living with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I have difficulty trusting men. I know its lame but I have had REALLY bad relationships in the past and well I am trying to be better about it now. My new bf is a great man or so I think. He decided to just move in with me just recently cos he is ...

My boyfriend talks to his ex, and a friend who he has a past with. Is this ok?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - In the middle of a divorce, I needed help gettin no on my feet. Well a really good guy friend of mine offered to let me stay with him so I could save some money to get a car. And I didn't think after a few days of staying there I would have gotten ...

Am I just his rebound because his ex didnt want him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - my boyfriend just broke up with me and now he want to get back together. he just had his best friend(a friend of mine to venssa) to tell his ex that he liked her but they got in a huge argument cause he didnt want her(my best friend ever morgan) ...

Should I marry a non virgin woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - Should i marry a non virgin woman? I am a virgin guy, i dont want to deal with the retro what what jealousy i found out my fiancee has slept with 30 men....

Did I only want him when I couldnt have him, and now we are back together I don't want him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Please help. i was in a relationship with a guy about a year ago and he broke up with me but i wasn't ready to split with him so i spent most of last year wishing i had him back. i thought i was heart broken. in the last few months we became really ...

Should I stay in this relationship or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - hi im going out with this guy for 5 months but he does not tell me he loves me even if i ask him,and sometimes he does not call me on weekends,i dont understand him what kind of a person he is,when ever im with him he cooks for me ,he apreciates me ...

Insecurity: how can I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - This is going to be a long post. I appreciate honest and helpful replies. In the past I posted extensively on here believing that my fiancee was up to no good etc etc. I now strongly believe that I was so wrong. There were no signs of it in her ...

He has moved away and already seems to not care as much about me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of a year, moved away to the province next to me two days ago for work. I asked him if he wanted to break up but he did not want to. But already I am feeling really insecure about our relationship. When we were together we were so close ...

He wont put his ex's in their places for me, should I stay or should I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Ok this might be a bit lengthy I appologize in advance! So my boyfriend of 14months continues to speak to his exes and of course says they r "just friends" !! I have met one (she is engaged over 2 years now) however anytime she calls my bf ...

He is only interested in his new girlfriend and doesn't care about our baby....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - okay, Where could I start?? I was in a relationship for 4 years, and I was engaged. We were already going to get married, but everything just start going down between us. Everything started out great and then it just went straight down, I was living ...

I feel so disrespected by the way my boyfriend treats me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone I would appreciate some advice about my boyfriend. We have been together for about a year now and I just feel so disrespected by the way he treats me.His friends ALWAYS come first, he completely ignores me sometimes when I ask him a ...

He's pushing me to go out with others, but how can I get him to try to make 'us' work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - i'm sorry it's long but i really really need advice and help on this, so can you please help me, i would really appreciate it. my ex broke up with me through a text saying that i couldnt fix it and that he was sorry and he loved me to but that...

Turnung The Tables On My Boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I have not been here in a while, but right now I need somebody to talk to before I lose my mind. I already have finished crying my eyes out, now I need to vent and express myself and receive some ideas. I have always had a huge problem with ...

I care about this girl. So why am I questioning her sincerity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - I'm not very experienced at relationships, since i've only been in two. This one being my second. My first gf and I lasted a few months, and now i'm on the 2nd month, with my new girlfriend. I do everything right, i treat her the best, tell her...

He cussed at me, I slapped him and he slapped me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - It started in the car coming from a birthday party and theres a girl that i dont really like him being around so we get back home and i say why were sitting by her in the car. Im a very jealous person. Any ways he starts geting loud and everyone ...

Would you be upset if your fiance didn't give you a Valentine and a birthday gift in the same week?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - If your fiancée doesn’t give you a Valentine or a birthday present (Feb. 17th) after 6 years would you be upset? I have spent months taking care of him after his cancer treatment. I would have loved a card, but he just calls me names....

Is this student teacher relationship normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - He's several years older than me. He's the friendly, kindhearted, sensitive type, but I think our relationship is becoming too close. I don't know and can't tell. He has a girlfriend and hasn't made any moves on me, however our conversations are a ...

My husband hasn't had sex with me since getting our genitals pierced recently. He stills masturbates and I feel unwanted!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - My husband and I got our genitals pierced 3 weeks ago. He says that he is too sore to make love to me, but he will go and masturbate in the bathroom 4 times a day. We used to make love 5 to 6 times a day before the piercings. I miss him so much, but ...

My boyfriend doesn't like oral sex because of the taste. What can I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has only "gone down" on me once, and it was for about ten seconds. He had talked for a while about how the idea turns him on a lot. After those ten seconds, he never really said anything or did it again. He randomly told me while we ...

My parents let my younger sister get away with things, and I end up in trouble! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - I have a younger sibling who is constantly getting on my nerves. What really bothers me is her attitude. For example just recently our parents said if we get hungry we should eat the leftovers we had in the fridge and nothing else. So not 30 minutes ...

She won't open up to me about how she feels about our problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend been dating for about 9 months and the only problem is that when something happens between us she just does not want to talk about it. Even if its something very silly she gets angry easily and says its a fight and for me to ...

He's not ready for a relationship but he's sending mixed signals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - The question is: "Does It Sound Serious?" I've written to you before and asked for advice on if I should stick it out and wait. You and one other told me to wait. Another told me to dump him. I've decided to wait and so far I'm glad I did. My guy ...

The way she treated me while working out her issues has really taken a toll on the relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - Alright, so yeah I'm 15, if you're not going to take this seriously because of my age I'd suggest you just flat out don't read this. So I've been dating my girlfriend for coming up on 15 months now, awesome, but not really. I met the girl and we ...