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Archived questions from: 14 February, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I worry every day that my girlfriend is going to end things with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - I am a a recent college graduate while my girlfriend is still in school. She is currently spending the next 4 months studying abroad. We've been together for two years and this is the first time we've ever been apart like this. Its been 5 weeks ...

Her actions don't mimic her words

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - my girlfriend has told me numerous times that she loves me. but this past saturday was our anniversary and didnt remember until i reluctantly told her 11 58pm, wondering if she would remember. Then for valentines day I took her out for dinner and ...

The whole time married lover had me hanging on, he was lying and was with his wife!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - How does my ex feel now? I'm 26 years old and my ex is 36 . He was separated from his wife when I met him, I tried not to get into anything with him because I knew he was separated- not divorced- but he convinced me it was ok...

I'm not the valentine he proposed to. I can't live with my mistake

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I'm destroyed. My exbf proposed to his valentine today and it wasn't me. How do I put back the pieces of my broken heart? Last year he proposed to me but I blew him off because he revolved his world around me which made me look at him like a ...

His actions make me believe he doesn't love me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - Ok cutting a long story short. After waiting 4 long years, where I saw this bloke on and off but knowing there was no relationship as such, although always had the feeling he thought more of me than he would say. Then giving up on him. He emailed ...

5 year relationship never cheated on her but tempted to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - ok well not sure if im in the right or wrong but need help im 23 years old nd just recently moved in with my gf of 4 1/2 years she is 22 and everything is good but the intamicy and sex life is not there nd she tells me not to be mad and i pretend it ...

When we are fighting to whole world comes down around us but when we are good, its so good!

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14 February 2011 (F) - Ive dated a guy for three years off and on this last break up lasted a year and we were both with different people now were back together and things are different he is jealous and rude, i cant even pick up my phone with out him looking at me weird ...

How can I assure my boyfriend? Our past is bothering him

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14 February 2011 (F) - How can i assure my boyfriend? we used to go out over 2 years ago and were very much in love but because of his drug use i gave up. i got with other guys but he was always on my mind. now we are back together n he doesnt do drugs anymore and has ...

My husband is flirting with other women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I really have serious issues with my marriage and I don't know what to do. I am married for a bit over two years. We didn’t know each other for long (just two month) when we decided to get married. I found out few days before our wedding that music, ...

So for Valentine's Day my boyfriend got me lube and a dildo, where's the rest of my present?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - My Boyfriend got me a dildo and lube for valentine's day and I'm really upset because that is not at all what I wanted. What should I do?...

Was a vibrator for Valentine's Day a bad idea to get my man?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - so for Valentine's day i couldn't figure out what to get my man. I was talking with a friend a week or so ago and she suggested i get a vibrator to spice things up a bit and give it to him with a dirty note. even though our sex life is great like it ...

Teacher ignores me, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - There is one teacher in my school who totally ignores me. Well I don't have any classes with him, but sometimes I do have him for exra help, and then he just like talks, talks and kinda doing his own business. I don't mind, I mean he's just my ...

Lost my brother and now my fiancé is moving on as much as I want to reconcile with her

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14 February 2011 (M) - Had been in a five year relationship. We were engaged til mid last year. My brother had been killed in war, shortly before christmas of 09. For kind of the first time in our relationship I wasnt able to tend to her needs as i was going through and ...

After my boyfriend verbally abused me, he at least owes me a call on Valentine's Day!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf abuses me verbally often. Most of the time ill never fight over it. 2 days before i got so pissed off when he started abusing me mentally, hence we had a fight. He told me not to call him and i didnt. He called me yesterday (just ...

My stepson messaged me to ask me out to dinner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

14 February 2011 (?) - Let's just start with me saying that I am divorced. Been so for about 2 yrs. I've been married twice. I have 3 kids of my own. 2 girls and 1 boy. All from my first marriage. My second marriage, no kids, but my husband had 2 boys. One is in...

My boyfriend wants to move out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend thinks it's a good idea for him to move out. We are both very young (19) and have been together since we were both 16. We've lived together for I'd say a year and a half, maybe even more. We've had issues like this in the past where he ...

Who is the victim here.. ... Me, my partner, or the wife I didn't know about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. I dated him in high school, grew up around him, so I gave him more trust than I should have. I knew something wasn't right, red flags, but had no idea what it was. I did notice he wouldn't talk abo...

I feel like our relationship isn't working out because I feel like it's turning into a lie.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. I love him he's my bestfriend and I honestly wouldn't know what to do without him. We do have our occasional fights (who doesnt) I often don't feel like they are a big deal, but he doesn't ...

Has this man lost interest in me? Everything was going well until Friday!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I met this lovely guy online and we began talking (this was about 6months ago). Anyway, we lost contact and about three weeks ago we started talking again. We went for a drink, and spent hours talking. It was great. He texted me the next day to s...

My boyfriend and I wait on the other to act first and it's driving us apart! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't put any effort into our relaionship. We really like each other, but we seem to be waiting on the other to act first and it's pulling us apart. He doesn't touch me unless we are alone and that rarely happens. And we have never ...

Is he hanging onto me until someone else comes along? Am I wasting my time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I’ve been seeing someone since November. He says we are in a relationship but it does not feel like it to me. We live about a 5 minute walk from each other but we only see each other either once or twice a week and its only for a couple of hours. It ...

After 5 months of reconciling with my partner, I'm attracted to another guy. Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I need some help!! 5 months ago my partner of four years told me he didn't love me anymore but then decided he did a few days later. I got close to this other guy as he was splitting up with his gf and we was kinda helping each other through it...

Feeling guilt for disowning my paedophile father

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - About 6 months ago I disowned my father. He divorced my mother when I was 3 after cheating with a much younger woman. When I was 7 he went into prison for sexual harassment on school children (although he never touched me). We had a good relations...

Insecurities are going to ruin our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and we've lived together for 5 months. We are very much in love, and he is definitely the best influence in my life (I have a depressive, judgmental family, struggle to relate to people well enough to make ...

My ex is punishing me for breaking up with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - Here it is valentines day and my exbfs doing everything he can to make mine blue. He broke up with me but's punishing me because I stopped feeling sorry for myself and pushed myself out the dumps. He didn't give a horses butt how I felt that he went ...

Now he only cuddles if he wants sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - Hi. I am 29 and have been married to my husband for about 1 1/2 yrs. We have 2 children. We were together for about 1yr before we got married. At first, he was very loving and affectionite. He would always kiss me and cuddle with me. In the last ...

Do I forgive him for sleeping with a random girl while drunk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - i've been with this guy for a year already. throughout the relationship, i did get in contact with my ex for a couple of times. but my boyfriend still accepts me. however, nothing ever happened between me and my ex. my boyfriend ever kissed my own ...

If I break up with her what does she have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - I am 21 years old, and have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years now. Lately, we've been fighting and arguing almost every day. The fights we have are always about stupid and pointless things. I very rarely get upset about things, but it seems ...

After all the ups and downs and all that we've invested in the relationship, he wants to call it quits...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - Let me just start by saying this is going to be very complicated but I would really appreciate responses. I was with my boyfriend for almost 7yrs. We have a daughter n I am currently pregnant. Recently he told me he doesn't want to be with me anymo...

I want to save my marriage. But my husband rejects me sexually. What would you suggest I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - hi ny husband is 35 and we have been together for 4 years and married for 2 and a bit, when we first got together our relation ship was great i had all the sex and cuddles kisses i could ask for, then i moved into my own home with my 3 kids and...

I broke up with him, but I still love him. How can I forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

14 February 2011 (F) - I used to love this guy very much,helped him in school til he completed and started working.Somehow ,somewhere we encounterd some problems which led to our break up.He is now dating some else's and i cnt forget about him since i stil love him dearly ...