A
female
age
41-50,
*chenice
writes:My guy is a plumber by profession. I love him very much and we been in love for three years. When he had little money on him last year i rented an apartment for him, fed him through last year. Yet i don't know much about his life. He excludes me from parts of his life. He promised taking me to see his relations last year but never fulfilled his promises. Im getting tired and confused. What do i do?
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reader, ShiShisAdvice  +, writes (4 February 2011):
 Walk away from this one.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (3 February 2011):
You are giving too much without seeing what you are going to get in return. In the end that is what a relationship is about.
You should stop giving him until he starts doing his own part.
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reader, auntieloulou  +, writes (3 February 2011):
 i think there are 2 ways you can look at this:
1) he does not actually want you to meet his family, maybe because he is embarrassed by them or because he does not get on with them.
2) he does not feel the relationship is ready for it.
Either way, you need to speak to him and ask him why. If your relationship is serious then meeting the family is important. It might be that he's never introduced a girlfriend to family before and he's nervous. It might be that he does not actually want you to meet them. the only way you will find out is by approaching him and asking him direct.
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