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*mos
writes:hi I am in a new relationship with my boyfriend, ive lived in turkey for 8 yrs and ive recently met a turkish partner, we are in love. the first week we met he stayed everynight it was great we are so happy together but is it normal for his parents to tell him not to rush in and not to stay everynight? I am so confused as my previous relationship we were always together. i keep on asking my new boyfriend is his family problem, he said no he said that his parents said he can sleep at mine sometimes but not every night. also am older than him he 24 am nearly 33 he doesnt wont a visa, he are never off the phone when we are apart is this normal or not as i would like him to stay with me everynight. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): first thing, they are turkish and yes they are very traditional, second one you are older...in our culture maybe that's normal but for them no too much, just be careful and respect their customs.
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reader, emos +, writes (3 February 2011):
emos is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi thanks for that just as turkish have diffrent culture from us he wonts to stay but his mam says take it slow which i do agree with her he is stuck in the middle as he wonts to come but his mam wonts him at home ive tolked with him to see if there is a problem with us being together with diffrent culture and he says no
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (3 February 2011):
 It sounds like they're just suggesting that he be careful, move slowly. They're accepting of you, and his spending the night with you, just don't want him to rush in too fast and possibly get hurt. They don't hate you, they just love their son. Parents are protective. That's normal.
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