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writes:I've been at my job for 5 months now. I met a guy that is so nice and cool we have this bond like if we where relatives. He is older than me and calls me his little sister and watches over me. He just told me yesterday he is not allowed to talk to me because his wife is jealous of me. I don’t like him in that way his 12 yrs older than me and is about to have a baby. The situation made me uncomfortable its weird to talk to him now. I have been in this situation before and don't want the drama it may cause again. Should I just stop talking to "my brother" because of his wife? I really don’t want to cause trouble between them what can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): This is a typical wife jealousy. You should just tell him that you don't think of him that way and that if he can to "draw the line" according to his wife. If you guys are just talking then what's the big deal?
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reader, youngandrestless  +, writes (4 February 2011):
 i really think you have already answered your own question. i really think you need to respect his wifes request and maybe slow down the relationship for a while. she may be very insecure about their marriage and is afraid of you. you may not have any intention of taking this relationship further, but she doesnt know that. im sorry that this has to ruin a good friendship, but i think it has already been ruined. anything that you and him do after this will be a direct insult to his wife. as his friend i know you do not want to cause trouble with his family. the fact that his wife is insecure with their relationship is something they have to work out together, and until she is comfortable with you then you need to respect her feelings.
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