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writes:We are both in our early 50's, seeing each other for 3 years now. I love her very much and I don't want to be without her regardless, but I am getting frustrated as I have a normal sex drive and desire her constantly. She does so much for so many, but she is romantically absent for me. She says she doesn't look at me that way, yet I am her partner in every sense of the word. Parenting, grandparenting, finances, household responsibilities, etc. How long can I be surrounded by all these people and continue to be alone. Please help, getting lost in my own desire.
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reader, Leodjoneluv +, writes (3 February 2011):
 I understand how you feel. she will soon make you feel resentful and being resentful turns to anger. Seeing her treat every one so well but deny you will surely hurt and make you angry. you have to speak to her and tell her how you feel. Tell her that you love her. even when she is home, call her from another room or text her and tell her that you love her. Be romantic by writing a poem or love letter. Watch a movie and asd her to come sit with you. Try to set the mood and do everything in your might to be romantic. Now if she does not respond to you, assume that she is selfish....... Talk to her.
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