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anonymous
writes:Hi all. Well I've been dating a guy on and of for about four months who is the same age as me. We always have lots of fun together and when I'm with him he makes me feel so good. The problem is, I'm getting mixed messages. We dated for a few weeks ans he out of the blue put on facebook he was back with his ex. Then a few weeks after trying to get over that, I sent a message over the christmas holiday wishing him a merry Christmas and we starting chatting again. He told me that things hadn't worked out with them and that he was single again. We then started seeing each other again and sleeping with each other. I've met his mum and some of his family. He doesnt express to me how he feels unless he's drunk and says things like, "why do I let the best things in my life walk away?!!" We've had discussions with other people about our relationship status and I've always given mixed messages to them, as that's what I have been getting from him. He also has some personal problems that have caused me to think about whether I do want to be with him. I'm spitting feathers, I don't know what to do next. I really like this guy and we do get on very well when it's good, or am I just paranoid? Also the relationship feels like it's all one sided. I go and see him most of the time. He doesnt really call or text unless I call or txt him first. I've bought him stuff and lent him money, but he pays the money back. Is this just a friendship thing, or is there a relationship thing going on??? or should I just get out!!!!! Please help me !!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): thanks for your advice guys really apriciated im still not sure what to do but i think the friendship thing is prob gunna b my best option
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): you are his second choice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): Oh dear this sounds very much a one way relationship. He only tells you he cares for you when drunk, you do all the giving - him all the taking. And you haven't been together long. Be wary, really. I think you may get your heart broken.
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reader, laurenlouise +, writes (3 February 2011):
 it sounds too me like he only wants you when he wants you like he can only be bothered when he wants you. as for what he says when he drunk it seems like he still in love with his ex and isnt quite over her yet. maybe he just usin you as a rebound may sound harsh but you wanna seriously considder it. i think your best of leavin it as just friends without the intercourse etc and it will show how he really feels for you. hope my advice can help.
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