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writes:I have been talking to a girl for about 3 years now she is 26 and i am 28 and she works as a mobile cairer for the elderly for a few weeks she has complaind about this womans son how she doesnot like him and how hes old enough to be her dad and how she cant stand him recently his mum died and she told me that his friends were at there house with him and his friends took all her jewlery and he didnt even stop them they just use him and he lets them but now she has now said she is dating him i told her that this is a bad udear as he is 50 a drug addict and dependant on anti depresants her last ex was a son of a woman she looked after and she can not stand him eather i told her that she is doing this because she feels sorry for him also now that she has told me she is dating him i rearlies how much i like her this has left me not sleeping well not eating rite and feeling down i worrie about her because as hes been using drugs she may catch something from him and with the way his so called friends are and him beeing dependent on ilegal drugs he will not change and i think she is not safe around them and that they may steal from her to im not good at writing things so hope this makes sence and hope someone can offer me advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): I have talked to her but she said she cant leave him after he lost his mum i dont know what to say to her i have rearlied how much i like her now we dont talk as much was going to send her a valentine card this year should i still do it
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): Just have her sit down without any distractions and just be just like a parent. Say that what he is doing is bad and nothing will ever change the way he is and that she knows better and that even though you aren't the boss of her to just consider what you are telling her.
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