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writes:What can I say to my boyfriend?? I broke his heart:(?So my boyfriend told me something that happened with him and some girl that likes him.. Anyways I got it all wrong and thought he cheated on me with her..but it turns not to be true. I got really nasty and called my boyfriend all kinds of horrible names and now he wants to break up with me. He said I broke his heart.. and we can just be friends now:(But am so sorry..I've been crying on the phone to him for about 2hours..I love him so much.. and I've said am sorry so many times but he says I will do it again..Please help me..what can I text him to let him know am truthly sorry and that I do love him..Thanks..xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): I am sorry for the misunderstanding you had with your boyfriend. It sounds like you was really hurt when you thought he had cheated on you, and so you said a lot of things you now regret.
You have apologised enough, and he is still feeling hurt. So no matter how much more you apologise, it is not going to help at the moment. I think the best thing to do would be to send him a text, or tell him over the phone or in person, that you are sorry for what happened, and you are going to give him some space to try and heal. But that you would like it if he would give things another chance at some point. And then leave him alone for a while.
You have learned from this experience, and the only way you can show him it will not keep happening is if he allows you to have another chance. But right now, I think he needs some space and time to deal with his feelings. I know you must want to keep apologising non-stop, but it is not helping. I have done the same thing before, hurt someone and felt so bad after, but once you have said sorry the only thing you can do is learn from it and move on. Whether the other person can or will is down to them.
If he agrees to try again, then I do think it may be worth addressing the issue between him and this girl who likes him. It sounds like this may be something which is causing problems for you, or at least making you feel insecure. I think it might help to have a discussion about how he feels towards her, and why you feel so concerned he may cheat on you with her. I hope things work out well for you both.
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