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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

MY man called her baby!!!!

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1 February 2011 (F) - I recently moved in with my bf were goin to have a baby girl in 2 months. I thought that we had a perfect relationShip and that he was faithful to me so I didn't think twice about moving in specially bcuz now were goin to have a daughter but I came ...

Concerned he may have someone else...

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1 February 2011 (F) - I am not sure if my boyfriend really wants a relationship and I am concerned that he may have someone else. For one I have only briefly met one friend and his wife. We have never done anything together with any of his friends and their girlfriends ...

Lie and lie again...

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1 February 2011 (F) - I have this predicament.. I want to tell the whole story so everyone knows all sides.. I met this guy when i was 11 years old and we always flirted and we were good friends and then years later after him moving away and everything we got ahold of ...

I haven't heard from him since!!! Help!

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1 February 2011 (F) - Well I tried to have a good weekend with my boyfriend, and we did yesterday I took him down to philly for the auto show and then took him out for dinner and paid for everything and made a good effort and then last night he decided to open up - and ...

Why did she just give up???

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1 February 2011 (F) - I was in a relationship to an amazing woman for a year and a half, we recently split up, nothing bad happened, we were so in love and both had stuff going on (she was previously married with young kids and i was her first gay relationship) ...

I have a bad feeling he won't change. Am I wasting my time?

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1 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend about 2 years. Started off sweet, charming, slightly clingy. We began texting each other prior to meeting. He would text up to 200 per day. Telling me his life story. At first I was flattered he was so into me. ...

I want to leave her but I love my kids soooo much!

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1 February 2011 (M) - I met her at my second job, soon i discovered that she was not the one for me,(she would be staring at guys) but i kept going out with her until our relationship was too far, not to mention the fights caused for the staring, she always denied that ...

After last week's incident, I'm scared of him!

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1 February 2011 (F) - Me and my Bf have been dating for 2 and a half years, and i thought i knew all there is to know about him,up until an incident that happend last week. Just before we started dating, he said he did Muay Thai kickboxing, i didnt even know what that ...

Are we on a break or did I get the wrong idea?

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1 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been on our relationship for year now, and he asked me for us to go on a break again. He says he loves me and that he still wants to be with me but he need sometime off. I really didn't want to go on a break again. I did not ...

Online girlfriend is pregnant by her ex, but I'm going to see her soon. Is it her hormones or has she lost interest?

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1 February 2011 (M) - Okay this girl and I have been in an online relationship (I know it's not a good idea) for three months, but we just met on Facebook and started talking. We became online friends, and we eventually started getting interested in each other. She even ...

I told her that her boyfriend was just using her, I thought she had forgiven me. Now I don't understand her!

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1 February 2011 (M) - Recently, I upset a girl that I love (she knows)really badly by telling her current boyfriend is using her as a temporary plan and the other side of him. So, she ignored me for a week since I have destroyed her dream and then two days ago she sent ...

His birthday is this weekend but he says he doesn't feel like being around anyone!

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1 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone My partner and i have been together for 2 years, late last year he was diagnosed with sever anxiety. It is only this month and the last it has become worse, he is easily irritated, moody, grumpy, twitching in bed etc. he says he...

Am I being irrational?

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1 February 2011 (F) - This likely sounds irrational but it's been playing on my mind lately.. My boyfriend is a talented artist, just as a hobby, and most of the subjects he paints are fantasy figures of naked or provocative women with say mythical creatures. This has ...

Who should employ the NO CONTACT RULE? is it the dumper or the dumped?

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1 February 2011 (M) - hello aunts and uncles. this is just a random question to set the record straight. if you break up with your girlfriend, a)who should employ the NO CONTACT RULE? is it the dumper or the dumped? b) what is the meaning when an ex girlfriend co...

First, what should I do with my current relationship? And what do you think about this junior?

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1 February 2011 (F) - I'm currently feeling very confused now. I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 8 months. In our relationship, things happened too fast in the beginning. We made out before we even got together. I didnt exactly ask her to be my girlfrie...

My boyfriend complains that I never do anything nice and considerate for him in our relationship.

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1 February 2011 (F) - HELP! My boyfriend complains that I never do anything nice and considerate for him in our relationship. He always does the nicest things for me and for some reason I draw a blank any time I try to think of something I could do for him. I canno...

Just split up with my girlfriend, now do I respond to this text?

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1 February 2011 (?) - Right guys/gals. I got a question for you. I just split up with my girlfriend. We absolutely adored one another. Really in love. Practically joined at the hip. Anyway, my last ex was a bit crazy when I was with her and still is. She foun...

She's gone from loving and caring to controlling and possessive!

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1 February 2011 (F) - my girlfriend of almost a year know has completely changed on me. she was once a loving, caring person to me and my four kids. and know she is a total @*$%# with my kids and she is controlling and possesive with me. i dnt want to call it quits just ...

My husband is sucking me dry... emotionally. Need advice!

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1 February 2011 (F) - I don't even know why I am posting this here or how to phrase this so that I don't seem like the bad guy...but I am. And I know it. And yes, feel free to tell me so. I tried to tell my hubby that if he posted here with this problem you would all ...

I've received messages from my boyfriend's ex. Is he lying to me?

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1 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend went to visit his hometown a few weeks ago for a week after we had had a huge bust up and I thought we had finished until a few days after he left I spoke to him and we were ok. Since he's been back our relationship has been brilliant ...

I have just found out that my ex was seeing another woman in the months before he left me, how do I deal with this?

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1 February 2011 (F) - I'm not sure why I am writing this but, somehow I feel if I write about what I am feeling right now it will help. My ex fiance left me after 7 yrs. together basically for someone else. When he first ended it with me he told me after a huge argument ...

My ex has anger management issues. How can I get him to move on?

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1 February 2011 (F) - There's this guy in school whom I admired (a crush admiration only).. But eventually,i found out that he has anger management issues,so i didn't like him anymore,and so my classmates told me to distance myself a bit from him. But i was afraid t...

Living together for over a year, and I STILL haven't met his kids!

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1 February 2011 (F) - Over 12 months living together and still no sign of me meeting his kids (teenagers) despite us living with mine (also teenagers). I have asked twice to meet his kids. The first time after about 6 months and again recently. Each time the whole t...

What can I do? He seems not to know what to do in the bedroom.

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1 February 2011 (F) - Hi Guys, i'm just feeling slightly confused at the moment. I met a guy online. I thought we had something in common. He is a good man, he lives 200 miles away so we only see each other every other weekend but we chat every night on the phone. My ...

Is this relationship going anywhere? Should I just give up?

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1 February 2011 (M) - Is this relationship going anywhere? I have been in a relationship that has been full of highs and lows which lasted about a year. It was my first gay relationship. Both of us had been with women before. We discovered this together. I have...

I am thinking about leaving my boyfriend because I am not pretty enough compared to his ex!

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1 February 2011 (F) - What do you do if you are not pretty? I feel so insecure about myself. Its not my body, in fact I think my body is amazing I am blessed in term of genetics but my face is so...plain. ITs not ugly or weird its just boring and shapeless. ITs more ...

Was it reasonable for me to ask her to remove the guys she had a threesome with from her facebook?

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1 February 2011 (M) - I have been with my fiance for the last 11 months, she has many of her ex-boy freinds on her facebook account which she claims to be good freinds with, This also includes 2 guys who have had a threesome with her, it is a bit confronting and hard ...

I've been so lonely since my boyfriend has been away I had phone sex with another guy!

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1 February 2011 (F) - What have I done? My boyfriend has now been away since October and I miss him so much, and there's still 2 months left to go. I can't imagine being with anyone else but him. But I've done something horrific... I was on the phone to a very close ...

I feel like I am invisible to him!

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1 February 2011 (F) - i have a problem with my self-centered boyfriend,he has a baby from his previous relationship and all he cares about is his baby and himself, and its like im invisible in hs life, he wants me to do everythng he want or say he changes my plans what ...

He wants a blowjob but I don't like doing it, what can I do?

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1 February 2011 (F) - i have been in a sort of relationship with a boy, we are both same age(17). at the start we were just good friends he would come up for a drink, then things started to change we would kiss at weekends and then i saw him during the week and we would ...

He lies about everything.....how do I find the strength to move on?

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1 February 2011 (F) - I have known my partner for two and a half years and living at his home for the last year. He has a apartment in Florida and told me that a friend and her two daughters needed a place to live and moved her in. He came back to the u.k and basically ...

Am I being unreasonable? My girlfriend is being so clingy.....

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1 February 2011 (M) - Ok sorry but this sorta has to be a bit long winded :) I am 21, almost 22, and my girlfriend of a year and a half has just turned 20. When we first got together she was working at a bakery so early starts and all that, she had something to f...

I don't understand how it has gone from being so lovely and perfect to this?

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1 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my bf for nearly 4 years and have been living together for nearly 3. Our realtionship to me was amazing, we had so much in common up for a laugh go out with our friends, eveything around the house was split 50/50 we was a good ...

Could it be that he is just not that into me?

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1 February 2011 (F) - Is this normal? My boyfriend and I have a semi-long distance relationship. He works out of town most of the time. We've been together for 3 years. Tonight in particular I'm awake and he's asleep right now. I haven't seen him in almost 3 wee...

Problems with the in laws!

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1 February 2011 (F) - hi , Ive been married for 5 years now and having problems until today.my in laws are never happy with whatever i do for them.they are always complaining and create a very unpleasant atmosphere in the house..im very disturbed because my husba...

Am I too slutty for a serious relationship?

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1 February 2011 (F) - So, I'm searching for a serious relationship. I've never had one. I know this guy who is really nice and friendly, but I only saw him as a friend... until two weeks ago saturday we went to a party and he held my hand and was really nice to me. I had ...

Do I live with my family to make them happy or live with my boyfriend?

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1 February 2011 (F) - I am 20 years old. When I was 19, I met someone who was a little younger than me. Throughout our time together, we had our ups and downs, but eventualy ended up moving in together. The problem is that my family doesnt like him, and my grandfather ...

I want to leave but I don't know how.......

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1 February 2011 (F) - I moved country's when I was 18 - I realize now I was young and very impressionable. I was persuing a man 8 years older than me however I look back and it wasn't for him at all it was more for the freedom from parents! I could do whatever I wanted ...

Is she not interested in me anymore, or is it just her pregnancy hormones?

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My teenage boyfriend needs to step up and take care of his responsibilities!

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1 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, My partner and I are young parents (I was 16 and he was 17 when our son was born) and we hae been together two years. We are now 17 and 18. I love him so much and our relationship has grown so much since our son has been born, but it has...

He lied to me and now is telling me I'm too controlling!

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1 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is telling me I have to stop controlling him. I have been with him for over a year now this march an we have a 5 month old together too. Yes I have trust issues with him bc of our past, my trust has gotten stronger an better with him, ...

Can someone please tell me what is wrong with my ex boyfriend??

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1 February 2011 (F) - Okay, I'm gonna try and make this as short as possible. My ex boyfriend and I were together for a yr and a half. I'm 25 and he's a few years younger than me. We rushed things in the beginning and moved in together immediately. He was absolutely ...

Made mistake of breaking up with him, want him back, but how??

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1 February 2011 (F) - my ex and i were together for 4 rocky months (we're 23 and 24 years old). i dumped him once in november over a fight he started that distracted me from school (i wasn't that into him them). he came back, made things right, and we got back together. ...

Gf is angry because I didn't insist that we lv event so she could study, what now??

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1 February 2011 (M) - Short version: My gf is mad at me because I didn’t ask her if she wanted to go home early so that she can study for her exam even though it was an event that she wanted and chose to go to. Long version: 1. Background: Gf had to study for ...

My boyfriend doesn't want more children, yet we never use protection

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1 February 2011 (F) - I'm not sure if I'm pregnant or not. This is all new to me sex and all. I've been having sex with my boyfriend at least twice on the weekends. Sometimes 4 times. Sometimes he pulls out sometimes not. I know you can get preggers pulling out. Lately ...

Help!!!! Is my relationship worth saving?

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1 February 2011 (F) - Hi and thanks in advance. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. Its been a constant trust issue on his behalf. Accusations, of me being unfaithful(I've never been I'm loyal) I'm not allowed to speak to the opposite sex. If I do, th...