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Archived questions from: 17 February, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Wife meeting up with her ex... how do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

17 February 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my wife for 5 years. Our relationship started off very passionate and exciting. We used to be very touchy and sexually intimate. Over the last 2 years or so, this spark has significantly died down and now we're rarely...

Big trust issues...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1757 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - ok, don't know where to start and don't normally do this but here goes.... I am having a bit of trouble in the love life department :) I am going out with my boyfriend for the past 4 years and we have had our fair share off ups and downs.. ...

Boyfriend shuts down on me!

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17 February 2011 (F) - Why does my boyfriend shut down on me and ignore my calls and text messages when he is angry? We have a long distance relationship so I hate when he ignores me....

I just want us to be fair, and have freedom and I want a healthy relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I need some help, I am a bright eighteen year old girl. Mature, and respectful. Hooking up and dating were never things I'd partake in. Right before starting my first year in art school, I met a guy who instantly charmed me. He would call me every...

I feel I need more from him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - ok so erm heres my situation ive been dating this guy for bout 5 month hes dead nice and im really into him the thing is he doesnt let on how he feels and i have the feeling hes seeing other women but when im with him he refers to himself as "ur ...

Why did he disappear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I am so hurt. Back in October I started going out with this guy. We were on the phone every day and went out almost every day. About two months later we slept together. But It was a bit of hot and cold after that, we didnt become a couple but kind ...

All we do is fight and I can't take it any more... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do about my relationship! Okay, well me and my boyfriend have been together a little over a year and we use to be so happy together and we never fussed or got in fights now the past month that's all we've done and I can take it ...

How often should couples do things together once they are living together?

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17 February 2011 (F) - How often should couples do things together once they are living together? I moved in in December and things have been pretty rocky. Lately, he hasn't been inviting me out at all, and he goes out every night these days. When we do have plans to ...

What does this man want from me?? How do I stop caring?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - Last year I moved to a new country and met a man whom I really liked and dated for about 4 months. During those 4 months, I had caught him sending 'flirty/sexy' text messages to other women and had confronted him. He apologised but then I found...

I want to take revenge on him for making me feel this way!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - Hi all, I'm going to make this a brief question,but I really hope you guys can give me some helpful advice. My ex and I broke up last friday night after a bad argument and he sorta lives about an hour away from town. I'm so angry inside because I...

Does he want a break up so he can play the victiim?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I've been in a relationship with this guy for about 3 months now. Things were good at first we had our petty couples quarrels but other than that we respected each other. But lately my boyfriend has been getting vicious with his words and the things ...

Our sex life is almost non existent and its really making me feel badly about myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (M) - Me and my fiance have been together for almost four years now we have a beautiful daughter together. I just don't know what to do anymore I love her with all my heart but something has to change, I'll put it like this my gf makes me scared and ...

My boyfriend avoids kissing me because I have yellow teeth.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - my teeth is all colored by a shade of yellow which was caused by the type of drugs my mum took while carryin me iin the womb bt the 2 front teeth are more affected.i tried doing something abt them bt all the dentists i went to told me dt the ...

I don't want to become a homewrecker so what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I'm in love and it's for the first time. and to make matters worse, he is in a relationship with a friend of mine, and it gets worse he told me that he's in love with my to, but all so with his girlfriend. I don't what to be come a homewrec...

I'm so preoccupied with my partner being attracted to others.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I need help - I'm so preoccupied with my partner being attracted to others. Not attracted as in finding someone else pretty or goodlooking, that is fine. But what I am most scared about is the possibility of him crushing on someone. That would make ...

Family problems! Should I be more wary of them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - Hi Everyone.... Though I'm old enough to know better, you'd think I would know better than to feeling defeated. My family consists of my parents, my sister and her husband and kids, and me and my fiancee. I am educated and a hard worker and a vol...

I would have left this married man if I could!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I am a 23 year old girl madly and helplessly in love with a 35 year old man who has a 3 year old daughter and an 8 year old son from a 9 year marriage with a 34 year old woman he dated for 5 years before marrying her. i liked him at the word go ...

My mind is trying to convince me to break up with my boyfriend. Why?

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17 February 2011 (F) - So i have been dating my boyfriend well over a year now. We go to separate colleges and see each other if luck, two times a month. Next year im transferring to his school. I currently hate the school im at and am upset and emotional almost all the ...

Is he cheating on me as he appears to be hiding something? Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - Hi i dont where to start ..well i have been with this guy for about 5 months now.I love him very much and he tells me he loves me too.I am kinda a jealouse person so when i see something i am start thinking alot. 5 days ago he turn on his fhone af...

Why did boyfriend lie about watching porn when I was open to it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I've been dating my BF for over 4 years. he always had the stand that he didn't get into porn and it didn't do anything for him. I was open to it, I had my own collection. I tried to introduce it into our relationship at one point and he couldn't ...

After everything he says we should focus on friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - i have a 6 month old son with a guy i met and after constant arguing and him contacting his ex that he cheated on me with in the beginning he said we rushed the relationship and we should focus on our friendship. what does that mean?...

I have to chose, both of them will be hurt

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - Im so confused. I met this great guy and there was instantly a connection. Things went really fast and we are already living together. But he is so hot and cold. Sometimes he is the sweetest man on the planet other times its just like we are nothing ...

He was having a text affair with the cleaner because we had a row?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - i have been with my man for 5 years, in this time he has photographed his penis and himself in my bedroom on the adult friend finder, i was 7 mths pregnant at the time, ive found various other women photos on his phone which he down loads from ...

I snooped through my boyfriend's facebook and I wish I hadn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I've done something really stupid. Something which I've emphatically discouraged people from doing on DearCupid so many times because it only ever turns out badly. I snooped through my boyfriend's facebook and surprise surprise - it turned out ...

Sex life not what it should be and I am struggling to be content

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17 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over two years now and a life without him seems bleak. Before I met him, I was in a very dark place, but he rescued me and made me happier that I ever thought possible. However, for the past 5 months or so, I ...

He has a girlfriend but says he loves me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - OKay so there is this guy i am in LOVE with, and he knows it. But he has a gf, but he says he loves me back. And im obsessed with him and i cry everynight and i need him. any suggestions??...

My boyfriend won't barely kiss me anymore! Why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - So here's the story... My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months, and we are both 15. We have kissed before, but he really doesn't ever make out with me. I personally love and really enjoy kissing, but I don't think he does. I would really ...