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writes:In the past, I've identified as bisexual. The thing is though, I don't like to date guys. (I mean maybe that will change, but he'd have to be pretty amazing.)I only find them attractive physically. When I've done things with guys, I picture a girl. And I won't give handjobs,blowjobs, or even look at their penis. However I do date and fall in love with girls. So my question is should I tell people I'm a lesbian because I have no desire to date guys and use them, but I fall in love with girls? Or should I say I'm bi because I think guys are good looking and am willing to fool around with them?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (6 March 2013):
 you don't have to say anything... why do you need a label?
I am bisexual. I find women sexually pleasing and attractive but on an emotional level I prefer a man for my life partner.
I define myself as bisexual but since I am in a monogamous marriage I have forsaken all others so I currently have no girl play. MY husband would be fine with us finding a "unicorn" or a girl to play with but since I don't want to share him, I've opted for giving it up.
So if I don't tell folks I'm bi, they just assume I'm straight and since I'm not sleeping with them it really doesn't matter what they think does it?
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (6 March 2013):
 I think you are a lesbian who is bi-curious. If you were bisexual, you would be able to fall in love with men too. I may be wrong, but that's just my take on it.
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