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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:There's this girl at my school who i can't understand if is shy or just ignoring me. About a month ago we started chatting on FB and in the beginning we chatted a lot and got to know each other. I was starting the conversations every time. Slowly the conversations became more rare and shorter. There were many times when she didn't reply at all. Recently we started to bump into each other in a diner during recess. I caught her twice looking at me and then quickly turning away. I noticed that when she sees me in the diner she gets nervous but the quick lack of conversations on FB worries me and I'm starting to think that it's more of a lost of interest and not being comfortable with my presence in the bad way than being shy. Three days ago I sent her a gift thru a teacher for a holiday we have here in Bulgaria and she accepted it but when i asked her the next day if she likes it she didn't reply although she stayed online for a long time. If she has lost interest and wants to ignore me why don't she just unfriend me on FB? But she hasn't. I even drawed her. I've heard from other people that she's more of a quiet person and comes from a good family and I don't think she has ever had a boyfriend before. Any opinions?
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reader, Questioning_Girl  +, writes (5 March 2013):
My guess is she's really shy and nervous to talk to you. She seems like she likes you, but she's probably extremely shy. Try to talk to her in school or outside of Facebook and the Internet. Ask her on a date or something. I think the only reason she's ignoring you on Facebook is maybe she's logged in and she's not really on it, or she's scared/shy. Anyway, good luck!
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