A
female
age
41-50,
*oraatuha
writes:We love each other very much....we have known each other for 9 years ....the first time I was not aware she liked me but finally I got to like her .....I left for university, though she was still in high school she is the one who tried the most to stay in touch ....my boyfriend by then was even jealousy and suspicious about our relationship ...nway she is the most beautiful gal I know. ...And now am in love with her ....I have told her and she says she is straight ....she has a boyfriend ...that comes to me for advice when they have issues ...I give him true and honest advice ....coz I want her to be happy ...she loves him ...When am with her, we can even strip to our knickers and cuddle ....she wont let me touch her or even kiss her ..though I have tried ...when we are chatting online and phone, she doesn't stop me from telling her how I feel ....I have tried to distance my self from her, However, she complains and practically wants to bite meI would love to atleast be intimate with her but am not sure if she is scared or she is leading me on .....What should I do?
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (13 March 2013):
 Because she obviously values you as a very close friend, many girls are like this with there friends, holding hands, sharing the same bed, some even kiss eachother on the lips it don't mean she wants to take this further, you need to except this and move on .
Mandy x
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reader, doraatuha +, writes (13 March 2013):
doraatuha is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThen why does she get jealousy and possessive when I get a boyfriend. She usually claims that she loves me more than he does. When am with her in public, she just wants to touch me, hold hands, generally cozes up to me ....lets me sleep with her while our legs and body folded ....but wont let me kiss her "dammit " remember she is 25
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female
reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (12 March 2013):
HI
I think she is just trying not to hurt your feelings. She is with her boyfriend and has made it clear she is not a lesbian, or wants to find out . I would let it be and find someone who is interested in you.
Mandy x
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