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writes:HI!!Okzay this is on behalf of my friend who is driving me crazy!!so me and this girl have become really close in the past few weeks and we have become really close mates, she is so kind, caring, trustworthy and we have started talking about boys and stuff...I have a bf and i tell her about the ups and downs and stuff but she has this boy stuck in her head she will not stop going on about she told me about lets call him D he is in our year, tall not the most goodlooking boy ever and he is a total arrogent idiot! but she makes out she has been inlove with him for 2 years (i will explain thse story in a sec) so my friend is quite short, kind of heafty around the backside and legs and she moans about her 'weight issues' but its only becuase she wears oversized jumpers, she has quite a few spots on her face and she would have lovely long black hair if she did'nt always make it look like a mess but appart from that she has quite an attractive face... Don't get me wrong she is lovely and all that but she can look abit weird too someone who would'nt know her and she gets teased, made fun of because her family are indian and she gets laughed at alot because she is kind of clumsy and she has a bad home life,I am the only one amoung her 'so called mates' to actually stand up for her!! anyway back to the story she is abit of a loner but she is inlove with this D guy and she tells me this whole story of when she went on this paris trip and she wrote him a love note but he did'nt really say alot about it and apparently he used to fancy her, I asked him if he used to but he said the obv answer no because of her'appearence' then he walked off laughing, I did'nt tell her but in those past 2 years she has been out with 2 other guys who are both 18/19 and apprently they both wanted to have sex with her and recently she started kissing this guy but during kissing him she called him 'D' (the guy she fancies actual name) and things didn't work out... anyway she keeps moaning saying omg D did this and D said that and D called me this and I can't stop looking at him then she starts whimpering :( I feel really sorry for her and I have asked her if she would wanna find out if he really likes her or not because I said its better you did know than to regret never asking but she is too scared and I don't know what to say when she says 'OMG, I don't know what to do about him' what can I say to help her without sounding harsh and should I encourage her to tell him how she feels or tell her to forget about it and move on?? (which will be hard for her)Help please everytime she asks me what to do I say I really don't know and I need to tell her something please help?!?many thanks confuzzledamythest x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2013): I know how annoying it can be when your friends wont be quiet about crushes but i bet you do it too.I do it, i freaked for like a week when my boyfriend hugged me! She will do whatever she wants to do in her Own time whether that be ask him out or get over him! Maybe give her hints say something casually like "i know you like ------ but it's getting a tad annoying now because you keep talking" Hopes this helps
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