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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I totally have the hots for the lifeguard at my pool. Yet I'm so nervous and naturally shy I havent had a proper conversation with him as of yet. Every session I attend and he's on shift, we have so much eye contact! He smiles, i smile. It's definitely flirting, and i've been gearing myself up to go and talk to him. Anyway I wore a necklace that I couldnt take off myself and asked him to do it, which he did but I was such a sorry excuse for myself riddled with nerves that I sad thank you and literally turned on my heels. Mortified about that. And totally kicking myself that I missed out on a great opportunity to talk to him. Now I feel like it's going nowhere and I really want something to happen - but what do I do? If he really liked me he'd just come up and ask for my number right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answers. Yes you are right I do need to get to know him properly, do I ask him for help with my jewellery again in order to kickstart a conversation?
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reader, oldbag +, writes (18 April 2013):
 Hi
I guess he is used to seeing girls all day with his job, maybe he isn't allowed to approach female swimmers, he is at work after all.
SO, the ball is in your court, you could pretend to be in difficulty in the water, or ask what time lane-swims are or simply go up and give him your number (written down) after you've dressed and say 'call me'.
Nothing ventured n all that.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (18 April 2013):
 no he won't come ask you for your number for the SAME reason you don't ask him for his...
he smiles
you like him
so talk to him
he may have a girlfriend.
he may be gay
till you get to know him honey all he is for you is eye candy.
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