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What's the best solution? My LDR who lives in another country? Or the new guy who wants to see me again later this year?

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Question - (17 April 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2013)
A female Philippines age 30-35, *ostalgia writes:

i have a long distance relationship, my boyfriend (A) is in one country and I am in another country,

One time, I met my past puppy Love,(B) and we felt the love between us again. I'm realy in love with him. And I can feel that he is too much in love with me as well..

He even broke up with his girlfriend..

And suddenly, my feelings with my boyfriend (A) seem to be fading.. What to do??

The guy (B) I'm talking about is now working elsewhere, but will go back in my country at the end of the year.

He (B) said I should wait for him. and Im ready to wait again.

My boyfriend (A) will be back in October for vacation.

What to do. I need help :(

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A female reader, Nostalgia Philippines +, writes (20 April 2013):

Nostalgia is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks soo much :(

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (18 April 2013):

Fine, you want someone else to choose your future based on a few words, I say go with A.

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A female reader, Nostalgia Philippines +, writes (18 April 2013):

Nostalgia is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank You for your answers, In additional, My boyfriend A is just working in Singapore but soon to invest here, he is even planning for a house for us.. The other one,B, is they said to be my 3rd cousin?? Im confused.. I know he isn't related to me because they are the first family of my Lola,, are we cousins??? I love him so much :( help me. Ofcourse I can't tell to any of my family members because I know what will they answer me, that NO! because you both are cousins!! :( That's why I wrote here for my problem. HELP ME :(

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (17 April 2013):

This is a question that only you can answer.

Maybe you should think about how these relationships would be able to progress. There needs to be a way for you to be with either A or B in the future. Meaning don't choose a guy who will only be able to be a permanent LDR.

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