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female
age
41-50,
*ori
writes:Hi,I am both a lesbian and straight. My friend is a girl too. Once we did this weird/gay test. It's where we do gross stuff to each other (like humping and all that) She made it up. She did to me first. Every time she did something she would say, "is this weird" and I would always reply,"no" after the test she said your lesbian. I thought inside I know but outside I said, "no I just don't want to be a wimp and say yes it's weird" she believed me. I did to her and she said yes it's weird to half the things. I almost kissed her but luckily I didn't even move my head. I need your help. I love my friend but not sure if she likes me too. I want her to know I love her but I'm scare to tell her. PLEASE HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2012): Hi,You mean you're bisexual? Also, I think that even though you're said to be aged between 30 and 35 you sound like a teenager. Sarcasm aside, I think you should speak to your friend and ask her how she feels about you. If she wants a gay relationship she has to be open about it. Good luck!
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reader, Plumb +, writes (8 September 2012):
 Well I think you should first find out more of her sexual orientation, even if you already did the test it would help you see if you have a chance at her feelings be same as yours. If you really want to tell her I think you should. But if your really scared of her rejecting you or not being your friend anymore then just go with just being friends until you feel the time is right:)
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reader, Hugh.J  +, writes (8 September 2012):
 She was testing the water. Are you likely to try that "test" again? If so, go even further, I'm sure she will co-operate.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2012): How are you both lesbian and straight? I'm not following this...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2012): Well you know you should tell her before you miss your oppurtinuty you know .? cause it seems to me that she also might be scared to tell you cause she said it was werid and she was the one that made the test up so obv she was curiose to and most likely likes you. hope this hepled
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