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*arolines9711
writes:My boyfriend and I are broken up, but I'm so in love with him. Help me with my situation? My boyfriend and I were together for 3 years. It was long distance for the last 2. He said that the situation was really hard, cause my mom made us break up, so the last few months we were just talking and seeing each other secretly. He finally got tired of it and he said he wanted a break. He was also confused about feelings he had for his friend and he wanted to see if they could be a couple. Well, I am so in love with him and I agreed to give him space, but I am still jealous about his new relationship. I agreed to be friends with him until my situation changed. I just need advice on how to be friends with him, because I really don't want to lose him. He means so much to me. Thanks for the advice in advance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2012): Your mom was right to make you break it off because you're too young to be falling in love with your whole life ahead of you, when I was your age I was not allowed to date so I was doing my home work, playing jump rope and playing with my barbie dolls what a 13 15 year old should be doing and not having these serious relationship problems before time.
Whenever I read these posts of a 13 15 year old it makes me wonder where are the parents because when my children was that age I knew where they were and what they were doing. When I was your age I liked this one boy in school but that was about it, nothing serious so maybe you should just be friends with him like you said.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 September 2012):
 just be there to listen to him when he contacts you...
and in the mean time you do your best to move on with you life... you have local friends and school and maybe a part time job.... these things all require attention and you should focus on them.
if you have a hobby do it
if you exercise, continue.. and if you don't... start taking a nice walk every day.
the best thing to do is give him enough room to want to be in touch with you.... the sad part is honey, he's going to fade into your past eventually and be a nice memory. I know you can't see that now.... nor is that what you want... but it's probably what will happen.
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