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anonymous
writes:hey, this may sound like a strange problem, as it's something many women wish their man could do.my boyfriend lasts too long in bed if you know what i mean.. if we want to have sex then we have to make sure we have atleast an hour and 1/2 free, and that's excluding foreplay. dont get me wrong i'm not complaining. but a part of me thinks that he can't be that attracted to me if he takes that long. (you hear about some guys coming after a 10-20 mins and it just makes me wonder)also he likes it rather hard and fast. now i can take that for a while, but he does that for the entire time we're having sex and then he'll go faster when he's close. i get really sore after having sex with him, so much so that any contact there hurts..we've tried using lube but it doesn't work, and if we use it half way through it kills the mood a bit..we've talked about it before, but neither of us can think of anything to help..any advise?? thanksxx Anon xx
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (9 September 2012):
 I agree with Person12345 He probably is used to his own hand...
I've never had a guy go more than 15 minutes or so nor would I want it...
and for lube, try silicon based... it's more expensive but it doesn't need to be replenished as often....
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reader, person12345 +, writes (8 September 2012):
 "you hear about some guys coming after a 10-20 mins"
The average is five minutes. If it's taking him forever and a day to finish he should try abstaining from masturbating for a bit to see if that helps (it's the most common reason). The grip of a hand is much firmer than a vagina and it's pretty common for a guy to become so used to it that he has trouble with sex.
You should also buy better lube. It usually lasts longer. You can reapply it without having him pull out too, just have him pull out partially and put it as far up his penis as you can.
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