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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:recently moved from long distance relationship.my bf of 3yrs and 2 months have moved to my city. we study in different colleges.since the time he has come to my city he has started behaving strange.now a days he dont talk with me much.he is so involved with his new friends(all guys) that whenever i call he talks bothways,i mean to me and then he puts the phone on hold and starts talking to them.i told him to stop but he doesnt listen. another day i called at night,he said he was playing with his friends and said to me that he will talk and play both.i said no decide one.he said he will play!i cried on the phone because he didnt talk with me properly the whole day.he started laughing and said whats the big deal.today i asked if we can meet.he said no he has a busy schedule due to academics.today evening i called and what he answered shocked me.he was in a movie hall with his friends watching movie.he planned that movie with me but today he watched with his friends.m feeling bad because he said he couldnt meet me today because of his academic schedules but today evening he was in a movie hall.i asked him on the phone that why he did it and he said dont eat my head.i texted him to forget me.he still didnt reply.should i break up?we were true lovers but his behaviour has changed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe was serious and everyone knows about our relation.yesterday at night he texted me,in that text he called me a b**ch and abused me and told me to f**k off:( he has changed and its very much painful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2012): it sounds to me that hes not ready to be in a serious relationship and just wants fun with his friends,
you should sit down and talk to him before making decision on whether to break up or not. You should ask him what he really wants and find out what his intentions are regarding the relationship. If his answer is not what you want consider breaking up with him or just put up with his immature behaviour because obviously you want a mature relationship with a future but he maybe hes more childish and just wants a girlfriend to tell his friends about - boys can sometimes be childish!!
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