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Should I be worried that he doesn't want to involve me in his life?

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Question - (8 September 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2012)
A female South Africa age 41-50, *licia writes:

I have been in a relationship for seven years now and at first there were alot of arguments. It has been a long distance relationship until now that we are on the same town . I feel we should spend alot of quality time together do we can rekindle our relationship and just share things and have fun. But I seem to always be the one asking to see him and the last time we made love it felt like he was doing it coz I complained that we don't sleep together much. Today he goes to church and then him and his family gather for lunch and to catch up. He doesnt seem to want me there and never invited me telling me I will feel uncomfortable. Should I be worried tht he doesn't want to involve me in his life or should I just understand that he needs time alone with his family?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2012):

I wouldn't be worried that he doesn't want to spent time with you, I'd worry why you're holding on to him, as it doesn't sound like much of a relationship. I think you deserve someone who wants to spent time with you & make you feel that your a part of his life by including you. It sounds like he is the one who would be uncomfortable.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (12 September 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntJust reading through this I see that it is posted twice.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (12 September 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntJust reading through this I see that it is posted twice.

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