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writes:i just got out of a breakup, about a month ago, and im crying every day since, not being able to smile or laugh or have fun, i cant even remember what makes me happy. hes going out with girls, takin gpictures with them who post them on facebook,talks to a lot of them and adds really pretty girls, he likes a girl who likes him back, and im here crying my eyes out begging to be happy again, i just need someone to talk to, who can give me advice and their opinion without judging. i told a couple friends but they all told me to delete him and not talk to him. i understand how that would help, but i cant seem to do it and neither can he, i just want to get over him, i want to be happy again. hes extremely happy, moved on and making some other girl the happiest girl in the world while im begging and hopping to be happy really soon :( i reall yjust need someone to talk to, please :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2012): I have been through this before. This situation of yours might be so difficult probably because you are a type of person that is really attached to her partner.
I myself lost my boyfriend who moved on while I was behind and this happened the same age as you were. And this is particularly worse for someone with my type of nature who keeps a few friends and loves for real. Well, I can't say you are the same as I am. The advice you are going to get here is probably get over him, delete him, move on but nobody told you how to get over him more like you are on your own.
I would probably suggest you delete him. That was my first step to get over my ex I was so emotionally attached to but you might be tempted to go to his facebook profile and keep tabs on him (there's nothing wrong with that as I did also)but you would definately get over him.
The thing is when you finally get over him you just laugh when you remember how emotionally attached you were to him.
You have to FIGHT IT.
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reader, carolines9711  +, writes (8 September 2012):
Whoever you are, I'm in the same situation. SO if you want someone to talk to, message me on here. I'll listen to you and do my best to help. And believe me, we can do this. Message me. I'll be there. :)
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reader, KlassyKirsty +, writes (8 September 2012):
 Hi there :)I am going to reserve any judgement because I have been there done that and got the T shirt so i can empathize with u there :/ Ur friends are right in giving u advice such as delete him and to cut all lines of communication because believe it or not out of sight out of mind is really the best remedy because u r tormenting urself with browsing through his pictures and this is only adding salt to the wound :/Id suggest going out there and playing the field because ur ex has moved on and once u do u will forget this pain :)Good luck xx
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