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writes: Hi All,Two weeks ago I went out clubbing with my girlfriends.This guy immediately caught my eye, he was exactly my kind of guy looks like russell brand (I have a thing for guys with long hair)anyway he comes up to me, starts chatting, totally a ladies man!I really thought nothing of it....until a few days later he added me on fb. Have no idea how he found me! Anyway I accepted it and turns out he's semi-famous. He has all these pics with heaps of famous people. Hes a guitarist in a band, you can tell he gets heaps of girls.He hasnt contacted me on fb, but he has 'liked' some of my pics. Why do you think hes done this? Do i have a shot?To be honest I think hes outta my league, but do think his actions say otherwise?What should I do when I see him out next?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 September 2012):
I agree with janniepeg... he's just building a fan base...
when you see him be YOURSELF...
as for him being out of your league... I'm betting it's the other way around
remember... looks fade... glory fades... what sticks around forever is the insides.
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reader, Nitru +, writes (2 September 2012):
Not to be so pessimistic. Ofcourse there's a possibility he's just a pig and needs the attention. I wouldn't advise you to start writing him every day or running up to him if you see him on the street. Let him like your pictures and maybe like a few of his back, but don't overdo it. If you see him out then give him a long (atleast 3 seconds) look with a smile attached to it. This should let him know your interested and if he has the slightest interest for you, he will come and talk to you himself. And when you do get to talking then never let him think you want him badly. End the conversation on a high point with something like "I have to go meet someone" or "I have to wake up early". This gets him interested and hopefully he will contact you.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (2 September 2012):
I would say he's a musician and he needs fans to support his career. "Liking" your pics is one way to get a fan. Befriending famous people is a way to make himself seem more famous. Never think someone is out of your league and that girls are lining up for his attention. It's all an illusion. If he becomes your boyfriend then he will spend a lot of spare time jamming with his group, drinking, then befriend more girls on facebook.
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