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age
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*atsername1523_
writes:Hi. I am 15 and over the summer this family moved into a new building with a boy my age. We never talked to each other but we saw each other all the time passing in the parking lot. Now that school has started again we've seen each other once and just today he finally talked to me and said whenever I want to hang out I know where to find him. He is so cute and seems fun/nice. The problem is, I think i'm really boring and i'm afraid I won't know what to say/do when we hang out. I crack jokes all the time around my family but its different with people my age. So what do I say to him next time I see him? What are some icebreakers/questions I can ask him? What are some good funny jokes? How do I keep the conversation going (I dont want there to be any awkard pauses)? What should we talk about? Any answer is deeply appreciated, thank you. :)
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reader, Abella +, writes (2 September 2012):
 A smile helps. And not being too pushy. Notice something nice about him or something interesting. Guys love it when you notice something about him that is important to him.
Check out the free blonde jokes online. I would love to post some but that would contravene the rules on the good free jokes sites I know.
Try to use clean nice jokes so he can gain a good imrpression of you.
And sure you can ask questions. Here are 20 repeated below.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/20-questions-to-ask-someone-on-a-date.html
However do also LISTEN and LISTEN and listen a lot to him. Guys LOVE to talk about themselves. They love to tell girls stories that allow them to impress the girl they are talking to.
And take things slowly. There is NO rush
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reader, helza8a +, writes (2 September 2012):
 Don't over think it, Be yourself, say whats on your made, if he dosent accept that then his not worth the trouble.Also dont put your self down,We are all different and the best of friends will accept the differences in us. I know its hard, we all what to be able to say the right things, make the right jokes but thats imposible. SO SPEAK WHAT ON YOUR MIND.and GOOD LUCK.
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