I feel like my love for him died.

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I had a pregnancy scare a few days ago, I told my bf and I took a test, it came out positive. But, just to be sure I made an appointment for another test. At first, my bf seemed supportive and soothed my nerves. On our way to the appointment though, he changed and really hurt me by asking if I had been having sex with someone else. He also told me I was playing him for someone stupid and he blamed me for getting pregnant on purpose. Anyway, test came out negative. He was back to "normal" after that. I feel like my love for him died. We've been together almost three yrs and I can't believe he acted like that with me... I'm planning on breaking it off but a friend of mine says I'm being silly and that his reaction was perfectly normal. Really? Is that how men act in these situations? I felt like he stabbed me and he even told his sister about it without asking me how I felt about it. Now, I feel like he would have put me in the "trifling-wh*re" out to trap him if I had been pregnant. He's 15yrs older than me too if that makes a difference. Am I overreacting?

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