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Can I make sex turn into just pleasure and no pain?

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Question - (2 September 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 September 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi there i am 23 years of age. I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now he's my first serious boyfriend. Now for a while i had a problem when having intercourse i has terrible stinging but had tests and nothing was found. Anyways it could of been psychological because when we went to a hotel recently and it was fine didn't sting but i had an ache pain but at the same time it felt like pleasure also i mean i enjoyed it and got past the achey ness but i wondered if this common?

Is there any tips i can do to make it more pleasurable than feeling an ache?

If you can help i'd be very grateful.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2012):

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Thank you both. I am on birth control pills i use both in case.

I have been told by my doctors that the pill can often dry you out as well.

It isn't the guy i'm with because he turns me on no matter what.

But thank you both for your opinions. :)

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A female reader, Beatriceandjohn  United Kingdom +, writes (3 September 2012):

You know I was like that three years ago whenever I went to have sex I felt like it was burning I found out it was that the guy I was having sex with did not make me feel enough turned on.. Look up on it X

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (2 September 2012):

chigirl agony auntMy bet is that you aren't lubricated enough. It needs to be a slippery slope down there. Just being moist isn't enough, you need to wet the sheets, to give you an image.

If you can't manage it on your own, or with his help (he produced lubricant as well, which can help you out if you rub up against each other for a while), then buy a bottle of lubricant and be generous with it. Rub it on yourself AND plenty on his penis.

Avoid condoms, get yourself on birth control pill. Condoms have a tendency to dry you out.

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