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female
age
30-35,
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writes: I get easily attached to guys but for a long while I haven't liked anyone until recently. I started my new job a few months ago and there is a guy who is one of my relative's friend that got me the job. I am thankful to him but I notice that I started having an attraction to him. When I first saw him I thought he was really handsome but when I started working I got to like him more and more. Big problem is that he is married with two kids and happy. Don't get me wrong; he is around my age group. I want him to be happy but how do I get over him? Even though we hardly see each other because of our shifts I still miss him. He never showed me any sign that he is unfaithful and he shows everyone how much he loves his wife so I know I will never stand a chance there. How do you get over people that are out of your league? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Lucky786 +, writes (2 September 2012):
Just keep in mind how happy he is with his wife and children and how much trouble would be caused if you were ever to try and make a move on him. That should be enough for you to stay away from him and get over this infatuation.
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