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writes:hello i went on a date with a woman 5 weeks ago, she said it was lovley and i was a lovley man xxx . i wanted to give her a kiss at end of date, but did not want to risk it . i told this a few days later and she said she was not interested. but we have kept in touch up until 6 days ago. but 10 days ago she said she is still enjoying the chocs i bought her, and i,ts hard work on here , [ i assume the dating site ] , and that she is fed up. then she logged off. then i texted her and said do you want me to call you ? because you are fed up, but she never answered the question. so 6 days ago she sent me an e,mail saying , i am a nice man , keep at it, i,ts worth it !!!! [ meaning keep getting fit as i said i have started doing a fitness programme ] . and she ended the e, mail by saying, your a gent, someone will come along soon xxx . my question is, is it worth me sending a text, saying i miss you so much, i don,t want someone else. i want to be with you .
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reader, alright +, writes (4 September 2012):
alright is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you for your time .
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2012): I know its sometimes hard to see when you're in the thick of the situation, but from the outside its plain to see she's blown you off... Sorry mate there's plenty more women in the sea.
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reader, alright +, writes (2 September 2012):
alright is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok Thank you
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reader, person12345  +, writes (2 September 2012):
 No, she's trying to let you down gently but she is just not interested. It's not because you did something wrong, it's just time to move on. Sorry.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 September 2012):
 Sorry, no. You need to accept that you didn't "do it" for her, so it's time to stop wasting your time on her and move on.
If you keep pushing it's going to end up ugly and you will be looking like a creeper.
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reader, grymsoul +, writes (2 September 2012):
 Nope, she has already put you into the friend zone. She is letting you know that she is not interested and that you should move on and find someone else. No amount of letters or proposals of your emotions will change her mind.
If she had an interest in you then she wouldn't still be using the dating site. She also would not go so long without contacting or replying to your messages. She is using the compliments as a way to let you down easily without causing too much discomfort.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (2 September 2012):
 No, she is not interested in you romantically. She really isn't. She is being friendly. I am sure she knows you like her, and she could do something about it if she wanted to but she's happy with friendship. I think you should look elsewhere, go on other dates. And continue with your fitness programme. Try to divert your attention from this lady because it's not going to develop the way you want it to, unfortunately.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (2 September 2012):
 No, don't send the text, she already let you know she isn't interested in a relationship with you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 September 2012):
 nope... she's totally friend zoned you.....
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reader, Lucky786 +, writes (2 September 2012):
 You could send a text if you want to. Not sure what good it will do because I think she has made it clear that she does not reciprocate your feelings.
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