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male
age
30-35,
*atinomusicus
writes:I met a guy on a dating site a little bit over a month ago. And since day one we would text every day. He was looking for friends at the moment since he had just gotten out of a 2 year relationship two months prior to meeting him on this site. we would take turns texting, one day I'd text first and the next day he would text me first. He seemed like the perfect guy... When we met I used to live like an hour and a half away from him, and since I dont drive is was hard to hang out... so Now I moved to a different city which is like 30 mins away from him. We were planning to hang out for the very first time this sunday. on saturday I asked him if he still wanted to hang out on sunday and he said yes. And then later at night I asked him what he wanted to do. He said dinner for sure and maybe bowling. he wanted to go to olive garden.. for me this sounded more like a date, which I liked it. He once told me he loved cookies so I even bought a bag of milano cookies for him...on Saturday I asked him what time he wanted to hang out and he said around 4pm. Well Sunday came by, and I texted him at noon saying " hey hope you had a good day at work last night and I hope you had a good day sleep (he works third shift at a nursing home) cant wait to see ya soon :)... hours went by and didnt hear from him, so I texted him again at 4pm asking him if he still wanted to hang out... he never responded. I feel like shit right now because I dont even know what happened, and I cant even believe he stood me up just like that after talking to him for more than a month. At least he could of have called and said he changed his mind... idk, he just didnt seem like that type of guy. I dont even know why am I here. I'm just confused, my head is spinning with many many thoughts of why he stood me up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2012): Do nothing more. He has your contact details. IF he has a really good explanation...which is, he ended up in hospital, then you will hopefully find out soon enough.
Contacting him again is not going to make him contact you any sooner. He has your details. I can't imagine any excuse good enough for not letting you know he couldn't make it, and if I were you, I wouldn't accept any excuses, except that he is unconscious. At the VERY LEAST it wouldn't take much to send you a message to let you know he couldn't make it, but no message is disrespectful and unkind. Unless he lets you know what happened, I would forget him.
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