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I think he's married but he denied and now has little contact with me!

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Question - (19 March 2012) 8 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2012)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months now! i have asked him from the start if he was married he has repeatedly denied that he was! the other day another woman sent me a pic of him and his so called wife. When i asked he said it was his ex. but since that day he has had very little contact with me. so should i let things go and see what he has to say or should i confront him again and demand an answer?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2012):

you should just break up with him, no confrontation necessary, it's already pretty clear.

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A female reader, Ciar Canada +, writes (19 March 2012):

Ciar agony auntI think your trust has been misplaced. Another woman tells you he is married, you confront him and he withdraws. That sounds a bit suspicious to me.

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A female reader, Blonde68 United Kingdom +, writes (19 March 2012):

Blonde68 agony aunt

Well having read your post and your follow ups, if you trust him, then why don't you confront the woman who keeps sending the emails and photos?

He may be right, she could be an ex who just won't let go.

This isn't normally my style, however, Call both hers and his bluff and suggest that you meet up, and tell him to go with you. You will find out one way or another then. He will either go quiet on you or confess all, or she will back off completely.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (19 March 2012):

Honeypie agony aunt

If you feel a need to confront him over some pictures, you don't trust him.

And I will agree, the gut instinct is usually right.

Who was the woman who sent those picture btw?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (19 March 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntIF you don't distrust him then why do the emails and the photos bother you... just block the sender.

I think you don't believe him. I think you don't trust him.

otherwise this would be a non-issue.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (19 March 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntWhy did you/do you suspect he is married?

usually our guts are right you know....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2012):

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I don't distrust him, but i am tired of the emails and the photos! And if I didn't trust him I would have done a background check when all of this started! i do feel that if I'm honest with him, should be honest with me!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (19 March 2012):

Honeypie agony auntHonestly, if you know his age and his full name/State it would be easier to do one of those $6.99 or $9.99 background checks.

I think it's bad if you are so distrustful of this guy yet still dating him.

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