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writes:I am a 35 years old male, and gay actually. I met a very handsome guy, 8 years younger than me. In fact we work together and gradually I feel a mutual interest to grow between us. Today he started to ask me about personal things and that what do I think on him. Well, I was so surprised and I was just hemmed and hawed and did not say directly that my heart beats as hell when I see him. Now I do not really know what to do. I guess the moment has gone...I do not have anyway relationship right now and he also has problems with his boyfriend. So, what to do. Ask him directly if he has interest in me?...Maybe you do not understand why I ask it. The reason is that this guy is the percetly toned muscular guy, and I never dated such a perfect guy - simply because I am a bit old for him and not exactly perfect in shape....So I feel now that it is too nice to be true. And I also want to cover my feelings, since we work together on a very important project. And I do not want to mix profession and love. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2012): thanks for all comments. you are all right. its a question of heart or mind....but anyway I made a decision, and I have invited the guys for a date. and he said yes :) so I will see what comes and thats all.......
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reader, Deagan  +, writes (20 March 2012):
 It's a matter of following your heart or your head.
Try to not get involved at the time being, he's having relationship problems with his boyfriend, but you have to remember, he is still taken and unavailable. And to be honest, mixing love and your profession can be dangerous.
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (20 March 2012):
 Personally, I would leave it alone for now. As you are working on 'a very important project' it may be safer not to get involved. And you are right, I believe, to not want to mix professional and personal, things can get into a bit of mess. Good luck.
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