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Are they playing me for a loop?

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Question - (19 March 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend and I went to shoot pool to this pool hall with our straight friend and her boyfriend. The night was going smoothly we were all enjoying our drinks having an awesome time but something weird happened and am now a little confuse. My girlfriend excused herself from the group and said she was going outside for a smoke and will also get another round of drinks on her way back. A little while after that our straight friend excuses herself to go to the rest room, that left me and our friends boyfriend alone finishing up the game we thought nothing much about it so continued playing. I notice my girlfriend was taking a little to long so I decided to check up on her but I couldn't find her outside nor in line for drinks. I thought that was a little weird I went to see if she was in the rest room and to my surprise my girlfriend and our friend was walking out of the same stall together! I freaked out and demanded an explanation and my girlfriend said that she only went in the stall to let our friend vent because she was very upset. Our friend started crying saying how she was so sad and upset because she couldn't help notice how her boyfriend kept checking me out! At that point both my girlfriend and friend started confronting me and asking me what was going on between me and him! I felt bad I said to my girlfriend "I love you and would never cheat on you" I said I think we should talk to her boyfriend so we can clear this whole situation up, but they stopped me and said we should not make it bigger than it already is, that we should drop it! I didn't say anything that night but I feel strange about this the more I think on it. My friend and my girl spend a lot of alone time and I never really questioned it since our friend is straight and has a boyfriend, but now I'm really thinking that something happened in that restroom stall between them and they just decided to put the blame on me once confronted! I don't know what to think could this be a fragment of my imagination, or are they playing me for loop!

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (19 March 2012):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntI can definately see why you would think something is going on that is what would go through my mind, especially after they tried to turn it round on you which screams guilt.

But just because they were acting guilty doesnt mean they were getting it on, they could have stuck off to talk about something and just acted like that because they got caught out and paniced.

All you can do is talk your girlfirend about it and either except what she tells you or if not then you got to move on then.

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