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writes:So theres a guy who I've known and been talking to for around half a year now. We live far away from each other but have seen each other a few times when I come home as it is close to where he lives, and we talk pretty much everyday online. The thing is, I can't tell whether he just wants to be friends or something more? He is a bit shy, really really kind and just a really great guy generally but because of that I get the impression that he is just really nice to everyone. Very often he'll say things like 'your one of the sweetest people I've ever met' 'you're the cutest' and everyday it's 'Lots of love/love you lots/love you xxx' and 'I really love talking to you/can't wait to talk to you tomorrow', but then again, don't some guys just put a lot of kisses in messages anyway and say stuff like that??So I was wondering what your opinion is- whether you think he is just being nice and I'm reading too much into it or whether he could be trying to tell me something and I've been oblivious? Thanks for your replies :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the replies- I'll be seeing him very soon so I'll pay more attention then. I just don't want to get my hopes up you know? Because doing that and then finding out it's nothing is sort of embarassing and can mess up a perfectly good friendship...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2012): I think he likes you. It just needs that final move to make it into something more serious. Someone needs to make that move.If you are brave, let it be you. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2012): I think,from what you've said, your being oblivious - he definately likes you and I think he's trying to get that message across.
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reader, Beile  +, writes (19 March 2012):
 Well he could be trying to tell you something.
But you would have to see how he acts around you and other people. If there's a difference, it's a good sign.
Most guys don't really send messages with lots of love etc. They would usually save it for the girl they like. (Unless they are somewhat girly or gay, it's normal for them to say that.)
I can't really tell. But it's most likely that he could be hinting at something. Just a bit.
But I suggest that you should try meeting up with him in real life instead of chatting online. As words don't tell much as action does.
Like example his body language, eye contact, the way he treats you etc. These are good giveaways whether he likes you or not.
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