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writes:I am 18 and work part time at a restaurant, but will be leaving in a few months to start uni. I'm dead into a girl my age at work, and always have been. We have gotten friendly while drunk a few times but I never asked her out, and would find it awkward at work anyway. Should I tell her my feelings for her before I leave? What should I say? I would never forgive myself otherwise.
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reader, Deagan  +, writes (20 March 2012):
 Kyle007 is absolutely correct. And I assume uni means University right? College is going to be a very new, fun and challenging experience, so maybe focus on that.
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (20 March 2012):
So, you won't forgive yourself if you never tell this woman how you feel for her right before you go away and she can't see you?
I am sorry but it would be selfish of you to get someone all worked up over you right before you leave.
Not to mention the fact that all this time you have known her you haven't the courage to tell her any of this?
You wasted a lot of time that the two of you could have been together and I think you are just finding it easier to tell her something like this right before going because you will feel safer doing so right before you leave, so you don't have to deal with a real relationship if she reciprocates or it will be easier to deal with the rejection if you are off somewhere.
This is NOT the time to be starting something at home when you plan to go away somewhere, and it seems you are not really taking her feelings into account.
Once again, if it were meant to be, you would have told her by now.
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