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*hapsodyRach
writes:Hey everyone, it's Rach. I'm fifteen this year, and I do have a problem.Two months ago, in April, I joined this debating thing and this guy got my number from a mutual friend of ours. We started texting (is it just me, or do most of my crushes spawn from texting? Anyways...) quite frequently. He is a bit of a pervert, but nothing too extreme. At first, we only talked about our common interests, the girls he finds sexy, and so forth. However, I started suffering from a mild case of the blues somewhere around May, and for some reason, he was always the one I turned to. And here's the thing. He'd always reply my texts by giving me virtual *hugs* and telling me to cheer up.The *hugs* continued on until the beginning of June. One day, on Facebook chat, I teasingly called him 'my dear'. Originally, I intended for it to be sarcastic, but he started reciprocating and calling me all sorts of sweet things like baby, love, honey... he even called me his 'gal'. And this continued up till now. He always starts his texts by calling me 'baby', and once, my friend saw one of his 'baby' texts and asked him if we were together. He told her to ask me. When I confronted him about this, he claimed that he was blur at the time so he gave a blur answer.Everyone knows I am particularly expressive, so I posted quite a number of Facebook statuses concerning him. And he actually liked most of them. He sent me a text saying 'Hey baby...could I ask you something and could you please answer me honestly? Are your Facebook statuses about me?' I didn't know what to do so I played dumb. He told me to drop the subject instead.I'm really confused right now. I'm falling for him, admittedly. I can't resist all those sweet things he says, and I love the way he calls me baby. But I'm confused. Does he really mean what he says, and does he want a relationship, or is he just playing me around?Vital stats: he's a bit of a player, he cheated on two of my friends with other chicks. So I honestly don't know what he wants from me. Could really use good advice right now.Thanks. :)Love, Rach.
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reader, Sammia  +, writes (18 June 2012):
If he is a player and as cheated on your friends stay away from him. He is using you. I am sorry I am being completely honest. You will find someone who really wants to be with you and you will know he won't treat you like this. I had a similar situation with a lad I went to school with I had a crush on him in school. 12 years later he found me on Facebook he was sending lovely text we met up a lot over 12 months and I found out he was doing it with other girls from school. These time of men are not worth your time. I hope you take my advise good luck x
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