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*ooddrawer
writes:Recently I've started to fancy my uncle, I don't see much of him because we live in different countries so this is the first time I've seen him in awhile. I've started to fantasize about him and lust for his body, like I always do with a lot of people, but the difference is that he's around me more than others. My sexual feelings and urges are so strong that I don't think I can stop myself any longer and it's really getting me down. I'm not sure whether I'm feeling down because I can't get what I want or because I feel I'm not worth it, maybe it's both. The I feel really confused about my feelings and when I say it gets me down it really makes me feel rubbish.Has anybody else had this feeling of being down when in lust with someone, if so do you do anything to help yourself? Any help/advice would be appreciated very much.
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reader, gooddrawer +, writes (19 June 2012):
gooddrawer is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt's very hard to just cut him out of my life as we are close family when we all get together. When I know someone I like I find it very hard to let go because I want it so much, I wish I wasn't like this but I guess that's just life.
I know that my parents won't like it at all but they don't need to know as I don't want a proper relationship with him. I'm not sure if he fancies me back, if I knew a 100% then I'd go for it but it's the fact that he might not that really makes it much harder. My uncle is about 46 years old, I'm only attracted to older men.
As you say Bernard, we can't get everything we want, but there seems to be something different about what I want sexually to other things I want in life, it's so much harder sexually.
Thank you strawberrycake and bernard for your advise and help.
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reader, strawberrycake  +, writes (16 June 2012):
If you are finding it really hard to be around him because of your urges then you need to cut him out of your life.
You cannot break the law by engaging in an incestuous relationship.
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