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writes:Hi im 21 and in my life nothing has been accomplished and im just completely embarrassed to admit that. But now im looking for a real change im from a smalk town and its like ive become so completely immune to it. Eveythings the same all the time and I want to change but I dnt know exactly how to start but I dnt and cant just jump out there without all the financial means. Here im trying to make a new start and I just dnt know were to start. My love life before has always been relationship after relationship and not being treated properly and im tired of being the ”laidback just hoing with the flow girl”.....I want a real relationship with all of the perks I want to be a more active Gf like the ones u see makimg plans and taking pictures totally intune with there boi and they appreciate her for that..and im trying to get back in school amd tht process is becoming so.dramatic I dnt even kno if I wanna do these for years to be a nurse right now but I really want my career so I can move forward... and as far as friends go I have few but they are wearing me done because there so negative and they plan on staying here all of there life....but I want more I want the happy positive circle of friends who are enthusiastic abt life...I want tht bf thats just totally intune with me and understands ths things I want and try and give them to me....I want to travel see the world with friends or just having and amazing career....yeah I km now it sounds like fairytale but I really want this I really want to be happy but I dnt know how to change ME OR MY SITUATION in to this life. I really need some advice on how can improve my life and get out of this box im in instead of always beimg afraid and heldback....
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reader, Sammia  +, writes (18 June 2012):
You have took the first step asking for advice. What you are looking for will take time you are not asking for too much because we all want this. Just concentrate on one thing at a time or you'll be setting yourself up for a fall. Start with your career, if money is tight and you can't afford to study look at some voluntary work a few hours a week. Get a part-time job and save cut your out goings to the minimum. Look at sponsors for funding there are loads of websites you can visit. Voluntary work is rewarding and can help you make career choices. Get out of bed each morning with the 'I can' attitude. Positive attitudes can go a long way. Make a plan, for example I'm going to look on the net for voluntary work today. Tomorrow I will call hospitals for voluntary work etc. If you stick to it you will get some where. Even look at nursing homes, schools and where that involves looking after people even if it's only serving food. As for your friends, some people are content with their lives or are just a that strange in life where they cba! Don't cut yourself off from them completely but distance yourself from them. All you need is determination and patience and you will get what you want. As for the boyfriend you dream of don't rush in to anything think things through if you meet someone because our loneliness can often cloud our judgement you will find the right partner in time. I hope this helps. I would like to know how you get on and if you need any advice I am here. Good luck x
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