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writes:We have been really good friends since college. Then he proposed me after breaking up with his girlfriend. I accepted his proposal and remained his gf for 6 months. Then I broke up with him becoz I had just friendly feeling for him. Recently we met after 5 years. And I am attracted to him and he to me as well. We had sex although we didn't plan that. And worst he has a girlfriend now. But why is he ignoring me. I am so confused. When we met I felt he was still in love with me. Why this "ignore" stuff for me ? Plz help me. Should I forget him. Please "HELP".
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your valuable opinion. I've decided to move on and do what I love... ! Thanks ! TC !
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you !...
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (17 June 2012):
 It sounds like he wanted to try things out to see if he felt anything for you or he just wanted to have sex with you again just for the sake of it. When I was single I hooked up with this girl I hadn't seen for about two years but we knew each other and were friends before that only to find out that it was too awkward for me. At that point it is best just to not talk to the person and go on your separate ways. To be honest I would be tempted to hook up with an ex just because, but not cheat on someone. I wouldn't expect anything from him now.
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reader, Ayan Ganguly +, writes (16 June 2012):
 "Should I forget him."if you can,you should but,it's easier said than done,for you i suppose...i don't see him getting in touch with you any sooner unless he breaks up with this present girl friend of his.
There are reasons for him to do this:
1)You ditched him once and now he finds you craving for him..it's a great mental satisfaction(triggering the man ego stuff)
2)He is leading a happy life with his present girl friend..and they might also be planning their future...and he doesnot want you to destroy everything...what if you spill the beans about the physical thing
You say when you met you felt he was still in love with you..but dear i get a feeling you have/had fallen for him(pardon me if i am wrong i just felt reading your qstn)...but i guess it's better for you to move on..the answer is pretty evident,he does not want you there...hope it helped..take care
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (16 June 2012):
 This is the ages-old experience wherein YOU give him s*x, so HE can stop being nice to you.....
You will do well to simply forget this guy and find another (guy) who actually likes you.... and WAIT until you're sure he likes you OTHER THAN FOR A S*X TOY/PARTNER!
Good luck....
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