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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2012): Yeah it is the sound being off makes me feel better
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reader, person12345  +, writes (14 June 2012):
 Oh it's a problem with him watching porn, rather than with the sound? That's a different situation. I have many links on my profile you might find useful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2012): He claims he used it to remind him of the night before he said he closed his eyes and thought of something weve done.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2012): Yeah he did say it makes the fantasy less real but i still dont understand why he is doing this when he has a relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2012): I've done this before, if he is trying to imagine you for instance he doesn't want to hear some woman with a dodgy accent screaming oh yeah fuck me, while he's trying to come up with his own way of things playing out, using the porn as a visual aid to help the story along...Only those of us with good imaginations and far too much time can do this though...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (14 June 2012):
Does it matter? I'd think it would be a good thing to be trying to make sure there's as big a difference between porn and real life as possible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2012): That seems weird. I know my fiance mutes the speakers when i am home because he feels a bit uncomfortable with me hearing the porn while he is trying to masturbate.
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