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Is he just asking me to go back to his place because I give good Blow jobs?

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Question - (13 June 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 June 2012)
A female Portugal age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i met this guy and he was clear he only wanted sex. i was still a virgin when i had sex with him this week. it didn't hurt that much and i didn't bleed, but i pretty much sucked at sex and i queefed a lot. i'm sure he hated everything except for the foreplay and my blowjobs. i gave him one and he liked it, so he asked me if he could cum in my mouth. i said yes and he did cum in my mouth and i think he liked it.

the thing is i want to do it again so i can feel good too. do you think he's going to ask me to go to his place again just because my blowjobs are good.

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A female reader, curious1987 Australia +, writes (15 June 2012):

curious1987 agony auntIf you arent looking for a relationship, and only sex, make sure it is a two way street, that his pleasuring you too. most guys are happy to see theycare getting there partner turned on. However if this guy does not want a realationship and u do, make sure you don't just stick around in the hopes he will change his mind becozcu could end up hurt. but trust me when i say, unless he told you the sex was bad you might be stressing for no reason, when he might have really enjoyed it. :-) xx let me know how it goes if u have a talk with him. :-) xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2012):

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thanks, curious1987, you did help. we didn't really talk about the sex we had after we (well he) was finished. i knew i might not feel much because it was my first time but it was frustrating to him, probably.

i guess i need to think if i want to move on or if i try again..

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A female reader, curious1987 Australia +, writes (14 June 2012):

curious1987 agony aunty do u HAVE to give him blow jobs to make urself feel good? did u ask him how the sex was for him? u might think he didnt like the sex but theres also a good chNce he enjoyed the sex. great sex comes from two ppl who have a great sexual connection. :-) yes therez a chance he could ask u around again just coz u give good blowjobs. but if all u want with this guy is sex well maybe u shuld discuss it and he could also pleasure u. but if u want a relationship well then u need to di scuss that with him too. i hopw i could help. let me know how it turns out.xx

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