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writes:hie,went to a party and met this guy he liked me n asked for my number,we exchanged numbers.we had been communicating on fone for abt a month,we hav been dating for abt 7 weeks nw ,he lives 2hs away from my place.we had agreed to meet and talk one of these days but keeps on dragging the time as if he is avoiding me.we last spoke on tuesday last week,he has changed a lot,if i call him around 10pm he doesnt pick up his fone,if i dont txt or call him, he doesnt look for me.we havent visited each other yet.i hav told him several times lets meet talk face to face to know each other better.when i try to tell him hw i feel ,he says im forever complaining an he gets annoyed.we were dating on fone,im already in love wiv himm,do u think he changed his mind abt me? pls help me before i lose my mind.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 June 2012):
 How do you date by phone?
When my fiancé and I lived 2 hours apart we saw each other every weekend.. and when we were getting to the serious point of our relationship we talked or emailed almost daily… once we were serious we talked at least twice a day on the phone…
This guy is AVOIDING YOU. He hopes that if he does not contact you, you will just fade away….
You are NOT in love with him sweetie… what makes you think you are???
He’s not that into you… time to let him go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2012): It sounds like he may well already be in a relationship with somebody else. Even if he isn't this "relationship" between you and him doesn't seem to be going anywhere and it sounds like he just doesn't want to tell you he's not interested.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (13 June 2012):
 He's just too chicken to say he is not interested. In fact he is waiting for you to just pick up the hint and drop him as that would spare his guilt for leading you on. There is no such thing as phone dating. He doesn't want to deal with the hassle of commuting. Maybe he doesn't own a car? Don't take it personally. It's too bad you have this imagination in your head about who this guy is and you are anticipating what the dates would feel like. Normally if a guy is all talk and no action for more than month I'd drop him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2012): Your not in love with him,how can you be, all you have done since the party is talk, not date. Now he has cooled off and slowed the communication down.
He says you moan, well most girls would in your situation.You want to meet up, he puts it off. Maybe he was just getting to know you better but you've been talking for weeks and he met you at a party so knows what you look like etc. He thought enough of you to get your number.
Maybe a 2hr journey to keep a relationship going is not something he wants.I would ask if its going anywhere before you invest anymore time and emotions on this man,because it doesn't sound good to me.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (13 June 2012):
 How could he change his mind when you haven't even met in person? If you have asked him to meet face to face and he is avoiding you, he isn't interested. Please pay attention to his cues so you don't become obsessed with him and have to endure further pain or heartbreak.
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