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writes:dear cupid... i am 18 years old and i am dating with a girl for about 3 months. we love each other madly but we both are virgins so when any of our conversations tends to have a sexual content, we both feel awkward and stop ... until now, we have been only kissing and hugging. the fact is that the last months , we were quite devoted to our studies in order to pass to the university... we both succeeded. but before the exams,and precisely, when we started to date, she said that she wanted us not to hurry and wait until exams are over, before we go further. now that the exams are over, i have invited her to my place to cook together ... it was the second time that i've invited her to my house. the first time, she rejected my offer... what am i gonna do ? i mean, i really love her and nothing else matters... i am not in a hurry sleepping with her and i dont want to be pushy, because i do not want to lose her ... but on the other hand , i dont want her to think that i dont want her... what should i do when she comes to my place ? i ve thought that i could grab her waist gently when she will be chopping something , come closer to her, whisper to her ear that i adore her, and then kiss the back of her neck... but what happens after that ?
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reader, Melaniee  +, writes (1 July 2012):
 maybe she got scared that your gonna seduce her that day lol, I first had sex when I was 24 with the man that I'm married to right now, my first time I was scared to death cause my friends told me our first time (woman) always sucks all we feel is pain, give her time don't act like a pervert around her, when she's ready she will let you know :)
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