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He's not expressive about his love for me. And I have health issues. How can I encourage him to stop pressuring me for sex?

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Question - (29 July 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 July 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hello,

I need some advice please...

I am a 31 year old woman and I have been with my partner for 2 years. He is 39.

The problem I have is that although we live together and get on well most of the time, he only tells me he loves me once in a blue moon. I tell him I love him often and he only replies "me too".

He is French so English isn't his first language but I don't think this is the reason.

Also, I have had depression (due to work) and I am on anti depressants. This has caused my libido to drop and although we have sex at least once a week, lately I have felt pressured by him to have sex every day. If I refuse he gets sulky. I am actually anxious every day at the moment because of this. I feel immense pressure. I tried to tell him but he doesnt say much. so I dont know if he understands.

I also have a problem with my cervix which I am waiting for a colposcopy for to further investigate.

I feel like a bit of a sex object at the moment and its stressing me out.

I would appreciate any advice you can give me! thank you for listening...

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A male reader, Glacier Belgium +, writes (29 July 2012):

Your sex frequency was weekly. Did he suddenly 'change' it to daily? You might want to ask him why and tell him you're not comfortable with it. Perhaps you guys can meet in the middle?

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