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26-29,
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writes:I've known this friend of mine for as long as I can remember. He was my 1st friend, my 1st crush and I still like him a lot. I'm 16 and he is only a year older than me. He and his family moved to Arkansas a few years ago and now I only see him once a year when we go bowling, his parents, my dad, my brother, my brothers girlfriend, my dads "friend" (girlfriend), him and me. I found out last year that he too had a huge crush on me when we were little. When I see him now, all i think about is walking up to him and saying "Hey, Christopher, I just want to tell you that I am completely insane for you, I have been sense I met you. I have not once stopped thinking about you sense you moved away. I miss you all the time and I just don't know what to do anymore" Lately he's been in my dreams. One was at a school dance, we were dressed normal and everyone else in dresses and tuxedos. I don't know... Its just been bugging me more and more and I cannot stop thinking about him... What do I do?
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (29 July 2012):
Hi there. There's nothing quite like the direct approach.
So the very next time you all see each other again, when it's just you and him alone, say you wish you could see each other more often - instead of only once a year, as you do now.
And then you could say that you miss his company, and how much you enjoy being with him.
DON'T however, say you are madly in love with him, in case you scare him off.
It's enough for him to know that the feeling is mutual.
And then see what he says.
So you are then letting him know you are interested in him.
And then he ball is in his court.
So the next action will have to come from him.
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